I love her with all my heart and i dont want to do anything that would hurt her
2006-08-13 22:22:19 · 15 answers · asked by johnny w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell her...........
2006-08-13 22:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Lover boy,
It's all about commitment, caring and sharing but do not forget' an idle mind is the devil's workshop. Ya! talk to her when she is in that happy times; try to let her find something to keep herself busy e.g. working if she is not. Tell her that your being too close can make you demand less of each other thereby allowing hatred to be the order of the day. Or in alternative, choose like 2 to 3 days in a week or 2 to be a special day of being together as usual. If really she is yours, she will not be offended on what you said instead, her love will increase towards you.
2006-08-14 05:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by Amaka L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just polietly talk to your girlfriend and tell her that you are feelin a little crowded, and that you want some alone time. And let her know that you love her with all your heart, and you would never hurt her in any way, but you just need some space
I felt the same way with my boyfriend. I mean the dude never left me alone, I felt trapt, and I thought that everything I did, and every choice that I made revolved around him. I ended up breaking up with him, because of it. I really hoped this helped, and good luck to you!!!
2006-08-14 05:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by Ton 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gently suggest she spend some time with her own friends or on a hobby she enjoys. Is this a new relationship? Most girls calm down when they're sure you aren't going to leave them. If all else fails, you'll have to explain that everyone needs some solo time, and that you'll both be better off doing your own thing from time to time. Being together 24/7 is a real danger for relationship burn out. It may take time, but if she talks to her friends and reads a magazine or two, she'll see you aren't just trying to ditch her. Good luck!
2006-08-14 05:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by KyLeth 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you have to say things that are going to cause hurt. Better to get it out, talk about it and move on. Ill be honest this was something that was brought to my attention in my relationship. It wasn't easy to swallow but it was either give her some space or lose what I had. Just tell her what you feel.
2006-08-14 05:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
explain to her that everyone needs time without their partners,,its healthy for couples to have different interests,,it keeps conversation lively as you both have things to tell each other that you dont yet know,,it is how you find out more about each other,by having different things happen and how you deal with them,,,maybe think of a night you can go out seperately and agree to meet later on back at one of your homes,,or a club to come home together,,make a big deal about seeing her when you meet up and she will know how much you and she missed each other.
2006-08-14 05:38:19 · answer #6 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chat to her johnny boy cos if you dont it will irritate you to distraction and you will end up breaking up and that will hurt her. i just personally cannot understand girls who dont give there men space and independance cos I LOVE my own space and independance so I'm sure if you chat to her she will understand. say it in a way like : I just LOVE spending time with you, but if i see you all the time it loses its special-ness, but if we have out own time apart then i will just look forward to seeing you and I will enjoy our time together even more! I think this is a nice way of saying it.
2006-08-14 05:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her u wimp!!!...she wont know if u dont tell her!!..dumb ***!..but if u really have 2 cheat on her but dont want 2 break up with her..dump her for a day or 2..sleep with ur little b*tch then go back 2 ur gf :D
2006-08-14 05:27:04 · answer #8 · answered by farfo0o0o0o7a 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
speak to her and tel her how you feel..tel her u love her but you need personsl tym as well and that it doesn't mean that u love her less..if she loves you and i know this may sound cliched but if she does love you she should understand and if she doesn't itz either that she's insecure or she doesn't trust you enuf to leave you alone!!!
2006-08-14 05:27:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh thats easy just tell her very nicely that maybe she a little too protective over u
2006-08-14 05:29:49 · answer #10 · answered by life_and_ashleyxoxo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok tell her you need to go on a trip then you f*ck as many people as you want then when you come home you ll be a better man
2006-08-14 05:27:10 · answer #11 · answered by blackavaritia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋