boyfriend of 2years said he needed 2clear his head then 2mins later decides he thinks it wud be better to end it,he was cryin and got upset sayin he treated me badly and was for my own good,this was yest morning hes still makin the odd contact letting me know hes ok,and has said he would collect me from work this evenin as my car is away getting fixed,theres other stuff going on in his home at the min,should i walk away and 4get him or should i wait in hope that hes gonna realise hes made a mistake when everything has settled down. hes bottles things up and is very stubborn,i have a feelin he was annoyed with things happening between his mum & dad and was just unsettled? last time we fell out i had 2 go back to him and he admitted he missed me like crzy and wanted 2 ring me but just is so stubborn should i hold out?
2006-08-13 22:10:25 · 17 answers · asked by louise d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him..............
2006-08-13 22:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him if you want but realise that he is likely to repeat this pattern. Do you really want a partner who is going to walk out on you everytime the going gets tough? I'm sure whatever is happening with ihs parents is difficult for him but there are trials of adult life that are really stressful too - what about buying a house, having kids, parents dying, facing a partner being seriously ill etc etc.
2006-08-13 22:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,i guess you should just move on cos just look at you you are confused about your relationship at this stage itself and life is too long ahead.....
and he seems to not bother about your feelings at all,how can he treat you the way he does?and why do you give him a chance to treat you this way?don't you have some some respect?just maintain your dignity in any relationship,its all i your hands...don't let anybody take you for granted...if there are problems at his home,why does he wanna create one for you?and the question is are you ready to take this?it has become a pattern in your relationship that he keeps breaking up and u keep going back,why?don't you think u deserve someone better who would love and respect you and your feelings?
i guess move on and if you are still stubborn on this relationship,take some time out and give him some time to to think over it and also his behaviour!!
think about it and think wise!!
2006-08-13 22:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have strong feelings for him, hold on. If there are other things going on with him at the moment, try and talk to him about these. Offer him support but do not be used as a doormat, you are worth more than that.
Good luck
2006-08-13 22:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by A Good Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what you want and need. Ask yourself:
Does your boyfriend deliver what you need to make you happy?
Does he respect you?
Does he love you?
Do you love him?
Is he your friend?
Do you like him?
Do you trust him?
If he is making you a happy girl, then try to fix the relationship. If you aren't getting on so well, find someone else.
2006-08-13 22:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a really sad story I would let him clear his head and then I thik he will want you back! Dont forget about him he sounds like hes got loadz of stuff going on in his head and just needs to find where he is, trustme he will be BACK! lol x x x x
2006-08-13 22:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by Angelkiss85 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he just plainly love u like crazy, but yet think himself not deserve a good gal like u...assure him that he is the one u want and u wont mind leave him even anything happen unless u no longer love him, then dunt bother...just leave him to perish by himself
2006-08-13 22:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have split up before. and got back it will happen time and time again. go thru the pain of splitting up again and again.
if this is how you want to live your life get on with it.
personally they way i see it is if its over its over. i ve never go back. in my experiences people who get back split up for the same reason later on.
2006-08-13 22:16:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no stay in touch with him and see how it goes. tell him to talk to u about the real reason he broke up with u. maybe he loves u just as a friend.good luck
2006-08-13 22:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by addicted to this 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you think he is worth it, yes.
does he treat you well?
are you happy?
there are plenty more fish in the sea tho
and you will someone who is right for you one day,
so dont waste time if he is not "the one"
2006-08-13 22:14:08 · answer #10 · answered by limpit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay in touch but don't be a pest just be their for him if something is meant to happen it will
2006-08-13 22:26:09 · answer #11 · answered by gjs_coupedrive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋