I met her 1 year ago, she is 25, Im 23 and we're good friends, we go out almost every weekend, but not like dating, we hang out with more friends.
We have never kissed or something like that, ...
Lets say that she is easy...when we go out I've seen how she gets a man and take him home, but I mean she is not a whore.
She tells me she loves sex and actually she told me she would like to have sex with any of my friends, she doesnt want a boyfriend, just sex, .... and she ask me what would they say if she ask one of them to have sex.
I dont like her as a girlfriend and I know she doesnt like me as a boyfriend, but I know that she likes me just to have sex, no commitments...
Should I tell her and propose her to have sex? I dont want to ruin the friendship, but I think we can have sex and then everything normal , would that be possible?
and then maybe turn her into a kind of friend- sexual partner?
Should I tell her and sleep with her?
2006-08-13 21:27:40 · 27 answers · asked by Roger S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably not.. That's a turn off to me. She may have something dude.. You never know...
Be smart, and at least try dating her first.. If she doesn't want to date, than forget it.
I can't fathom how people can just casually have sex, as if it meant nothing but a "get off!!"
That is one reason for the way society is run nowadays. Children have been brainwashed by Hollywood, etc.. because of it as well.. This has made love and sex, 2 completely different things. One that I don't support either...
--Rob
Let me add, that all these people that are saying "GO FOR IT!!" Don't even much know your situation... yet, they are pushing you into something that may cost you a good friendship... Let alone, I see these people as selfish human beings-- either that, or those with no morals.
2006-08-13 21:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by stealth_n700ms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you start to have sex with someone, how do you imagine things will not change? Sex is actually making a very deep connection by physical means. Things like jealousy, possessiveness and the whole scope of that will easily make it to your heads, especially if you want no committment with it. Sex always comes with some committment whether you like it or not. It is why people feel guilty or happy.
If you value her friendship, I'd say not a good move. If you don't care go 'head and sleep with her, if she wants it too.
2006-08-13 21:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by groovusy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you think you can't have sex, only for sex, and must have a feeling, or ure sure that you will have one after having sex...and you'll be kind of jelous seeing and knowing other guys are having what you had with her...
You should not.
Writing here tells me that you are confused. If not, you might have already tried having sex with her, in this year.
You might feel depressed after.
Be sure you care for her, she's your friend.
2006-08-13 21:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
young man let me give you some advice from an expert in people. men cannot and should not be friends with women. its already into your head she is seeing other fellas and you probably are feeling jealous just a bit. forget about her and dont hang about her anymore. hang with male friends get drunk brag and bang some tail. "friendship" with a woman will tear your head inside out
2006-08-13 21:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur tsken a big chance by doin dis she could b cing how much she can trust u nd didi u ever tink mayb she has a low oppion of herself nd i doubt u askin 2 b het sex partener wood help so if u wanna keep the frindship id say no dnt ask her
2006-08-13 21:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by LILO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she would like to have sex with your friends? you've seen how she gets a man and takes him home? Dude has she been tested? theres this little thing called aids that lurks in todays society that has no conscience, no soul and doesn't discriminate
2006-08-13 21:37:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that if you sleep with her you will compromise your friendship. And by what you said you might be careful if you do she might have something that u don't want. If she wants to have sex with all your friends that should tell you something. I hate to break it to you but that is a whore in my book.
2006-08-13 21:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
friend,u dont want to have sex with someone who has it with every possible person.you might get infected and it will ruin your chances of livivng life the way you want it.Don't you have the dream of TRUE LOVE?you sleep with a girl you love and are into arelationship with not just because of lust or whatever.its a great feeling to love and be loved.
2006-08-13 21:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what do u want to do? i'm quite a liberal person, and if you want her to be your sexual partner (with no feelings involved) then go ahead. she seems to enjoy sex, so it may actually enhance your friendship.
PROVIDED you guys keep it at the physical and don't let any emotions run loose.
but one thing you have to ask yourself is.. has she shown any indication that she wants to sleep with you?
2006-08-13 21:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by statistics 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she wants to have sex with everyone but you!
Maybe she has an STD
Maybe she isn't that good a shag!
2006-08-13 21:31:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋