Marriage
2006-08-13 21:25:49 · 27 answers · asked by hananiah m 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not necessary to test physical compatibility. If you are attracted to each other you'll be able to find a pleasing arrangement of parts. It is more important to explore each others general attitudes. It is normal for a person's desire level to fluctuate and be highest in the earliest stages of a relationship. "Testing" can lead to unrealistic expectations for when you are both working and have children.
Having said that, I am not opposed to premarital sex just for the fun of it.
2006-08-13 21:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you asking for? Have sex and test each other. My good god, if that is the case how many times u have to do it before you actually marry. Well, I would have been happy if you had asked whether people should test for HIV+ before entering into a marriage. I suggest that both boy and girl should go for a HIV test before marriage. One should not feel shy or angry being asked to do that because infection of HIV need not be through sexual contact alone. It is always better to test it and get a negative certificate or one may end up giving birth to a HIV+ baby for no reason. If the questioner wants to know about the compatibility of the couple, well, you can find it out before marriage itself if you spend some time together and exchange views etc.
2006-08-13 21:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by JP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Point 1) It is called fornication.
Point 2) Besides sex is something that loving couples enjoy and supposed to share if you need to query that before marriage then maybe you just miss the point about sex and love and really are not in love.
Point 3) Sex is a technique you learn with each other over time a quick bonk before the marriage day is hardly going to prove anything.
Point 4) If sex is the ultimate decider if you should be married then don't bother getting married.
2006-08-13 21:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by Spadesboffin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes only if I'm really sure I'm marrying the guy. I wouldn't want it to just be about doing it all the time while we are just casually dating. I mean I'd like to test him out when he is my fiance. But to me the character traits, of honesty, trust, humor, understanding, commitment, respect and things like that have to fall into place too. Cuz anyone can have sex and you can work on it if its bad. But if you don't have the main traits down pact in the person you are going to marry then that could be a very messed up marriage over all.
2006-08-13 21:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in sex before marriage (but thats a personal thing) only because I like to know what Im getting myself into - I would hate to marry someone and find out they were lacking in that area!! Testing someone (as in testing to see if they will be faithful) is NEVER a good idea - it can backfire badly!! Temptation is bad enough in this world without having someone place it in front of you!!! If you are worried that the person you are going to marry isnt going to be faithful, then I would suggest reconsidering wether you are ready to get married at all
2006-08-13 21:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by kingpusskitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to trust the one you are going to marry and so therefor, you would know if they have any diseases and they would know if you do.
When I got married the 1st time, the law still said that we had to have blood tests in order to obtain a marriage license. We both came up clean.
I think it's a good thing, because if they say they are clean and they are not, then you've caught them before you tie the knot and can make a better informed decision.
2006-08-13 21:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by maat13101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You test drive a car before you buy it right? You want to make sure it drives and handles the way you expect it too. So yes, have sex before marriage.
2006-08-13 21:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Why not? You wouldn't buy a car without test driving it first. Why should you marry someone without a test driving them? LOL.
No seriously, if you two value and respect each other, then go for it. By experiencing each other's bodies, you become more comfortable and at ease. You start to know where to touch them and the like.
2006-08-13 21:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to have sex and never get married.
Sex whenever possible in whatever holes possible. F-her then leave her.
Why I oppose? Marriage is for losers and quitters who don't want to be single. Marriage is for weak minded people.
If you are going to test someone cheat on them. Then dump them. Then have sex with as many people as possible.
2006-08-13 21:29:13 · answer #9 · answered by jesusdrivesadomestic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it extremely is incorrect interior the Bible as a results of fact intercourse replaced into marriage. in case you slept with somebody, you have been considered married to them. An occasion of it extremely is whilst Jesus is speaking with a woman who had committed adultery. between the apostles asks Jesus something approximately her having 5 husbands and which you will be her husband interior the international to return. that's why it extremely is incorrect interior the Bible. actual, i can not say it extremely is incorrect. except you're basically doing each and everything that strikes, then quicker or later you are going to finally end up with something you do no longer desire. There are effects for movements like that. Edit: basically Me - Idolatry has no longer something to do with intercourse. Idolatry has to do with worshipping Gods different than the biblical one.
2016-12-17 10:28:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋