2006-08-13 21:22:15 · 45 answers · asked by annette_hello2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you should let them touch you. It sounds to me like they were just having a little fun with your body. No big deal. Don't trip over guys touching you. You're not a virgin, right?? So, what difference does it make? Let guys do whatever nasty things they want to you and just relax and have fun. See ya at the club!
2006-08-14 08:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by The Talking Head 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I love how "dancing" today is more like sexual charades.
Merely saying, "If you enjoyed it then do it", isn't right. Why did you enjoy it? If it was for the attention, there are better and safer ways to get attention. Just keep in mind how you appear to the rest of the bar. It also makes you a likely target to get raped. If not by the two guys in question, then by some on-looker who sees you as being easy.
Everyone goes to the bar to have a good time. Most go with the hopes of hooking up. Guys usually have to try pretty hard to get a girl, whereas girls just need to show up and pick one they like. Guys always just want sex at the bar. Especially if they're drunk.
So if you enjoyed it, that is okay. Just try to think ahead and be smart about what could happen.
2006-08-14 04:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by whatispunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!
Until you set a limit, they will just keep pushing the envelope...ending only once they receive some sort of sexual gratification, or are kicked out by the bouncers.
It is a game guys tend to play...see how far a gal will let you go, and stop only when some outside force makes you. Be that force, once you are in any way uncomfortable with their advances. Or, get knocked up, an STD, AIDS, raped or worse...if you want to let THEM decide when enough is enough!
2006-08-14 04:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by grapejuice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you want them to. If you don't wan them to, then no. Take a stance and stand up for yourself if you don't want strange men's hands all over you while dancing. It's ok to say no. You do not have to let people touch you if you don't want them to. You can dance with people without them touching you. Like the song says, you can look but don't touch, if you touch me there's gonna be trouble.
2006-08-14 03:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by sinfully_inked06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your body. Your body is your temple. You can command respect for your body and deserve respect for your body. I would assume that if two guys are touching you, all over in a public place while dancing, that you allowed it. If it made you feel uncomfortable, then next time, tell them hands off and if they continue, walk off the dance floor.
2006-08-14 01:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by Sister Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like it yeah. So what if they were getting a thrill, if you were too that is all good. If you are single and not hurting anyone's feelings it is ok to do exactly what you want with whoever you want as long as you are careful and you are enjoying it.
When you get in to a serious relationship and make a lifelong commitment, you can't do that kind of stuff anymore.
Make the most of being single. You won't regret it.
2006-08-13 21:42:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should only let them go as far as YOU want them to go. At any point if you feel really uncomfortable, back away from them and leave. you probably cant tell them to back off because the music is loud in a club.
one safeguard is to club with at least 2-3 friends. you can protect each other in case of unsavoury incidents!
2006-08-13 21:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by statistics 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately not. It obviously made you feel at least a little bad or you wouldn't have asked this question. Just imagine what they were thinking, and what they said to their friends afterward. Do you really want to be seen as someone like that? Well, lesson learned, you'll know better next time.
2006-08-14 00:17:17 · answer #8 · answered by frosty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were too drunk to fend them off if it got out of hand any further than what you described, brush 'em off politely and find your friends. it is harmless fun, if you ask me, until you leave the dance floor to find a hidden corner in the club or leave the club altogether to get a room. live life, don't contemplate it.
2006-08-14 02:10:12 · answer #9 · answered by luis d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply by asking the question, means you probably already know the answer. Anytime you feel uncomfortable in a situation, you have the right and duty to stop it.
2006-08-14 07:32:23 · answer #10 · answered by shannadee1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋