is it ok loving my ex-boyfriend???

Question

I have boyfriend now, and i saw my former bf again last year and we see each other lately, is that bad?

Answer 1

Flip roles, if he was seeing his ex behind your back and you found out, how would you feel about it? We can pretty much answer any relationship question if we just ask "How would we feel if somebody did that to me."

Answer 2

you truthfully won't be able to come ahead with this courting- he might want to in all probability be arrested for statutory rape, and can want to be continually categorized a sexual criminal or perhaps possibly a predator. i imagine you may want to both distance your self from one yet another, as his guilt is valid. If he is going to penal complicated you gained't see him any time quickly, nor will his children, so enable the guilt take over, and supplies you up seeing him. you're too youthful for a sexual courting with every person- a lot less someone who's 3 cases your age, AND your mom's former boyfriend.

Answer 3

Yes its ok, as long as its on a mature level. You may still have feelings for the guy, but you need to try to get over him. Because you have a new boyfriend who demands your attention, an you shouldn't be worrying about guys from your past. It may take a while to get over, but you will eventually.

Answer 4

I was with a man almost 4 years ago and I still love him. The last time I saw him all those feeling came rushing back. I think is perfectly okay to still have love for someone of your past, but if you are with another but you heart isn't with that person than you need to leave them alone (and give me their number). LOL

Answer 5

So you have a b/f and still see your ex b/f, right? Well thats not good really, the poor guy you are seeing now. How would you like it if he did that to you? Sit back and think about this. You cant do this to people.

Answer 6

Still having contact with an ex is not uncommon, nor is having feelings for them, esp. if you were together for a long time.

Now if you mean something more than just seeing them then it may not be fair to your current bf. But if it's just an open friendship with an ex you should be fine.

Answer 7

depends on the love that you are talking about, love for me doesn't really die at all, it stays there but it's the love of the past

you seeing him intentionally for some other reason or being more than a usual friend is not too good at all for your current boyfriend might find offense on that part, we should all put limits to our actions though

Answer 8

AHHHH, YEAH!
Chose which one you actually want to be a part of! you might have fillings that you didn't know about, hidden within yourself. You should handel it as soon as you can.

Don't put yourself in positions to cheat, you don't what to do that. Because once a cheat, always a cheat. It's hard to stop. I've never cheated, so I should know. It's a good thing to say to a mate, "Hey I've never cheated! So I don't expect you to! Let's brake up first!" lol.....that's the way it was for me! I always broke up with the girls, because they slept around.

you need to tell him about your feelings.

Answer 9

I think that no one should go back to his past, you should always look forward. getting back with your old bf won't get you anywhere
there was a reason for you to breakup. but if you really loved him' it is OK to think about him, talk to him from time to time. because there will always be a special place for him in your heart.

Answer 10

sweetie, i am VERY happily married and would never want to be with my ex again, but to this day i still wonder about him and miss him in a friendship way. maybe you need closure. have a talk with him, ask things and say things you never got to before, get things off your chest and it will help.