I read in here alot from women and men who are so attracted to a certain person. Well if that person that you have been wanting so bad decides to take you out on a date and tells you that they been wanting to be with you too. The person tells you that they are ready to comit to you. Would you then have sex on the first date or wait some more? Remember you have been really wanting this person. If you wait, how long?
2006-08-13 20:42:51 · 16 answers · asked by lhm1968 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would wait but only or at least until the next date or two just to make sure he's not on that bull **** and if he can't wait then you know he was lying when he said he was ready to commit to a real relationship, and you won;t feel bad because you didn't give it up so easy. TRUST!
2006-08-13 20:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not gonna lie, sex on a first date says a lot about a person, it's almost sleezy, if you have sex on the first date they may think that's all that you want, then you end up getting used and nothing becomes of the relationship. In order for a relationship to be meaningful between two people you have to get to know the person first, yes everyone has their animal natures and desires, but you can't give into them all the time, if everyone did, hell this world would be a screwed up place, if you did have sex with this person on the first date, well you didn't do anything wrong, you obviously felt it was right, maybe it was, in all honesty life is about making your own destiny and making choices, make your own, don't worry about what other people say, hell get laid and have a good time, you only live once so **** it
2006-08-14 03:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by micktobi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, One thing that let u down as men is discission making. Look at this u have just known someone, u have never being with him for a long time, just because u know her you think u can trust her. Mind you sex is a source of so many disease that we see in the world now. So man sit down and think for a while. Make a good discission for a better u.
2006-08-14 04:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by mapcon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The scenario doesn't matter. I wouldn't have sex on the first date because that just isn't enough time to build trust. Can you trust this person? Can you trust your instincts about this person? Do you think they are truthful? Kind? Considerate? Mature? Healthy?
I advise most people to wait -- especially if they are a woman.
-GirlShrink
2006-08-14 03:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by girlshrinkdotcom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on you...
if you think that the girl would like the idea of making it out with you the first time, then you go for it, otherwise, in my opinion its better if you go out with her quite a few more dates then maybe after sometime imply a romantic gesture to her that you wanted to do it with her...
2 to 3 mos. of dating is fair enough to know someone better and not just because you like her the first time.
2006-08-14 03:51:24 · answer #5 · answered by chem_femme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the attraction and the right moment are there.... then enjoy it and have sex... Go with the flow .
2006-08-14 03:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by cininni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it - with one exception, if the world were gaurunteed to end the next day, then yes I would.
2006-08-14 03:59:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ill wait to have some fun because if u had sex with her on the first date u already did wat u wanted to do and u would lose interest on her
2006-08-14 05:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by brisko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust, love, infatuation are not the same things now are they? If you just want sex, go for it. Use birth control too!
2006-08-14 03:47:33 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would do it, why wait if I am getting everything I wanted
2006-08-14 03:46:45 · answer #10 · answered by cherrygurl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋