2006-08-13 20:39:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is neglecting you now imagine what he will do to the baby. Your better off without him. Just make damn sure you get child support
2006-08-13 20:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by seth 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Now that you are having the baby, you have to accept that the baby is a much bigger thing than the attention or affection you are receiving or not receiving in your relationship. It just doesn't matter right now. If you are going to have this baby and raise it yourself -- you will have to focus on that. You can't change who the father of your baby is - so you will have to suck that part up and deal with it. As far as creating the relationship you want -- we all teach people how to treat us. You are teaching your boyfriend that neglecting you is okay and acceptable. If you want more attention, respect, affection etc. - demand it. Demand what you are worth and it will be yours:)
-GirlShrink
2006-08-14 03:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by girlshrinkdotcom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neglect him. I bet your all over him. Leave him alone take care of the number 1's right now which are your baby and yourself. If he wants to EARN his way back into you and your babies life later, you will have to decide to let him or not. Make sure he is a safe person to let your precious baby be around. Good Luck with your pregnancy, I hope you have a lot of supportive family around for you two. God will always carry you through the rough times. You'll make it through, you'll see how tough that tiny baby will make you become.
2006-08-14 04:00:38 · answer #3 · answered by trix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it too late for an abortion? No seriously thats 18+ years in a bad relationship or not in a relationship. Either way the kid is not even born yet and your having probs. Coming from a broken home, if separation dosent brake the parents it breaks the kids.
2006-08-14 03:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by Elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what can you do. If your pregnant and hes a fat head who does'nt want to know then stay away and dont let him have nothing to do with that child because who wants a father figure like that or abort it and send him the bill or find another man and get him to knock 10 shovels of poo out of him
2006-08-14 03:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by magnum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abort!
No seriously though you need to confront him and give his *** a reality check. If he neglects you then he will probably try to neglect you AND the child when you have it. BE PREPARED!
2006-08-14 03:41:12 · answer #6 · answered by d.anconia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to be rude but how old are you? Anyway, if he is young or old, I guess it doesn't matter. He seems like he is scared and immature. First you need to tell him how you really feel and then tell him the things you want done. If all fails move on with your life. He may come around and he may not.
2006-08-14 03:42:50 · answer #7 · answered by Simmy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god! You better talk to him how oyu feel. Pregnant women needs alot of attention, care, appreciation and love. Tell him. Have an open communication with him so that he knows how you feel. Tell him its for the sake of your relationship and especially for your baby.
2006-08-14 03:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by yummy _me 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
neglect... like abuse???
If it is, then MOVE ON. I KNOW you have his kid, but if you stay w/ him (and he doesn't stop), eventually, he'll start negect/ abusing the kid too (when he/she is born) And living my whole life (so far) w/ abusive parents- I KNOW I'll NEVER marry a guy who does that. So dump his @$$ if he doesn't stop
2006-08-14 03:43:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's too late,you already did it!!!
And it's not just his kid is it,isn't it yours too?
So,......... Are you gonna take it,or leave it?
The choice is yours. You didn't change him
by gettin' pregnant,and you sure aren't going
to change him now. The choice is yours,do
you want to stay with him,or leave him?
Keep that baby safe,it's your kid too!!!
2006-08-14 03:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by slappingfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋