my bf said everything is over w/o giving me the chance to explain my side... my ex-bf b4 him was bugging him and telling all lies to him.. he didn't even gave me the chance to explain... what shall i do?
2006-08-13 20:23:02 · 19 answers · asked by kish-kish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweety - if he won't even hear you out, he sucks. Feel the pain, grow from it, get someone better next time.
oh... and make out with Haagan Das... just one little tub of chocolate icecream makes everything better!
2006-08-13 20:56:35 · answer #1 · answered by Tish-a-licious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i can only tell you this because my fiancee of 4 years has recently run off with another man and moving to Ottawa with him. Relationships suck, alot, no matter how hard we try or what we say in the end someone always gets hurt. The best advice i can give you is to move on, if he would rather believe your ex over you then exactly how much can you truly trust and rely on when you may need them the most. Do you really want someone like that by your side when you have the absolutely worts day ever imaginable, i personally would not. So good luck, but i guess in the end think about what is going to make you happy, 6 months from now or 6 years. But remember the world is a very large place.
2006-08-13 20:51:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
regardless of you do, do no longer ask her out yet. it's going to make you look such as you're attempting to take income of her, and which will wreck each little thing you have equipped up so far. real now, you could nicely be only her chum. proceed to enable her cry on your shoulder and make her sense greater effectual, and notice if that doesn't make her start to think of of you in a different way. next time she is composed of you (or possibly the time after; be sure you're giving her time to heal), provide her a hug. i'm severe--friends do it continuously, so she would be waiting to no longer suspect something, and it will provide the two certainly one of you a huge gamble to work out what it feels go with to hold and be held via the different, which will up your opportunities without undermining her thoughts.
2016-12-11 08:20:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never Mind..
take your time to relax and enjoy life on your own.
go to chat rooms and some coffee shops for some relaxations.
There are so many things in the world that u can address and witness without a Bf . try some of those hun..
2006-08-13 20:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Nirmal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is know telling what all your ex- boyfriend told him so most likely he is really hurt if he will not let you talk . try to give him a few days and then try to talk to him . when u get to tell him OK look i no that u don't really care about what i have to say but i need to tell you and then just him no . hope this will help . good luck
2006-08-13 20:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by amandalove2283 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's not interested in listening 2 ur words and listening 2 others, he's not a good guy! If he really wants 2 b with u, he have 2 believe u otherwise he's lookin for a reason for breakin up.
2006-08-13 20:33:44 · answer #6 · answered by high_voltage_ir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try contacting him so that you can explain your side of the story. If he still does not want to listen then forget about him. In any case he was the idiot in listening to those rumors in the first place.
2006-08-13 20:27:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing at all! He will be back, trust me... But don't take him back. Teach him a lesson he will never forget. He will never let a ex tell him anything next time! Good Luck!
2006-08-13 20:29:49 · answer #8 · answered by wittster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank your lucky stars. If this loser is willing to break up with you over anything that one of your ex-boyfriends had to say, you're way better off without him. Truly, I can't emphasize enough, you're better than these guys, don't let them get to you and definitely don't let them back into your life.
2006-08-13 20:38:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonyman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will be back when he calms down but when he does make him feel like hes the only one and then he will realise that all he heard was rubbish and then he will start making it up to you which will give you power of the mind just like your ex did to him but used for the greater good (good luck)
2006-08-13 20:33:40 · answer #10 · answered by magnum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋