What should you do if you courted someone who dont want to have a lovers relationship but only friendship? I told her my feelings and she said that shes already comfortable with that kind of a relationship. That she doesnt want that to be ruined what do you think is the reason please help girls! By the way shes my classmate and she always makes my day happy one time that she got sick for the whole week that im the first person that she told me that she had a very high fever! I asked permissions to his brothers and they said yes that i could court there sister. Where both 3rd year highschool. What should I do?
2006-08-13 20:17:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say that you should respect her decision for wanting to keep it as a friendship. Don't rush her into to something that she will later on regret. Take things slow. Sooner or later she will come to realise that she likes you in a total different way. All you have to do is just be there for her and she will come to her senses. hang in there amigo. let me know how it goes.
2006-08-13 20:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're going to grow on her, most likely. She'll start remembering what you've said and how you've stuck by her and one of these days she just may come knocking. Don't absolutely count on it because stuff can happen. Don't stop living your life either. If you push, she'll likely take that as a cue to stop the relationship on any level.
Just work on yourself for a while and forget the connection possibility. You may find her even more attractive or you may find her less so. Be sure you're secure in yourself before making someone else the main object of your life.
2006-08-14 03:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by BeamMeUpMom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you've known her long enough
maybe u should know what kind of guy she likes
n maybe u can try to be her dream guy
or maybe
she's afraid of losing u coz when you're a friend you'll end up forgiving each others
but as lovers
u might hate her n never talk to her again
for now be her friend
if that's what she wants
but one day if u do find some else
dont hesitate
2006-08-14 03:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by maroonfive86 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her time and dont be so caught up. If she doesn't want anything more than friends leave it at the for now and just be her friend. She'll let you know when she's ready. if you push it she'll feel uncomfortable and stop talkign to yuo. Just be there for her. It'll all work out if its intended to be.
2006-08-14 03:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by Foxy_chicka_04 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe its too early that you proposed to her about ur feelings for her when in fact maybe she's just starting to enjoy keeping u around as her friend...
just continue being nice and a good friend to her.... make her realize that u will be there for her anytime she needs you...enjoy what you have at the moment, don't push things too aggressively on her...later on she will appreciate you for that and might realize you're becoming important and special to her...
good luck...
2006-08-14 05:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by chem_femme 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be patient and be the best friend you can possibly be. If it is meant to happen, it will. I knew my best friend for several years, and we grew to love each other (he had to wait for me as I was not ready for that to happen for a year and a half longer). We have now been married almost 34 years. It can happen. Best wishes.
2006-08-14 03:21:53 · answer #6 · answered by still learning at 56 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop her like a bad habit. I hate it when girls give me the "friend " line. Basically, it's like saying you're not good enough to be "intimate" with but we can hang out and do nothing. It's so emasculating, get out now.
2006-08-14 03:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Mojo Rising 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont push it,, let her come around on her own,, be there for her as a true freind and back all her plays,, be her shoulder whens she need sto cry and her journal when she needs to get something off her chect,,all the while, profess your feelings and tell her you will wait for as long as she wishes
2006-08-14 03:21:13 · answer #8 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Harsh reality, I know.
Maybe she thinks of youas her brother. Maybe she is truely scared of ruining your friendship. you're young, move on. but if you were just being nice to be her girlfriend, then you're just a jerk
2006-08-14 03:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by guhralfromhell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just br there for her all the time dont let her think that your totally after her just let her know that you care about her,
and every thing will work out,
good luck
2006-08-14 03:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋