When my dad was leaving out of town she asked if I wanted to go on a road trip with her in front of my dad, who is a very trusting kind of person, but when she did she winked at me when my dad wasnt looking, she also brushed my hair one day telling me she liked it and has done other things that lead me to beleive she wants to have affair with me, which i would never even consider i love my dad and god too much to ever to do something so low but i think she might also be having affairs with other men as well, how do I tell my dad this?
2006-08-13 20:13:57 · 15 answers · asked by knowledge2u4usa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him just the way it is. if he doesn't believe you, at least you've tried. just pray for him and everything will be fine. (:
2006-08-13 20:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by TrUffLe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she may not view you as you think she does. You may be projecting a bit--think about it carefully, and she may be trying to bond with you as a son or daughter (I don't know your gender) I am not invalidating your feelings, but you shouldn't go and critisize her to your dad unless you are really sure she is intending to send the signals you are reading. Why don't you write clarifying your gender and age and some of the other things she has done and I can answer whether or not your fears are legitimate and you should say something, or perhaps she is just a pretty woman with a flirtatious way and really loves your dad and doesn't mean anything other than trying to make friends with you and maybe you can open your heart to her. Or, you could just ask her if you are reading these signals correctly. If she is a nice person, she will explain and be reassuring and this will open up real communication between you two, and if she is the kind of person you seem to suspect her of being, she will be defensive and a ***** and you can just go ahead and tell your dad to be wary, and that you don't trust her.
2006-08-13 20:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by calliope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a guy or a girl? It's hard to tell from your narative, but I would say she's into some kinky stuff. If she's a hot MILF, then she's probably up to something, and probably wants to get some hot action in with you to keep you on her side/in her pocket. I recommend keeping something capable of recording sound on it with you, so when she does make a pass at you (or on a 'road trip' with her) you can save it and show it to your Dad. If you have a cell, and you feel she's getting ready to make a pass, dial a number with voicemail and leave the line open, or some cellphones have voice recorders now. She might try to blackmail you with sex or with something from your personal life (like porn or a secret), so don't give her any ammunition to cast doubt on you, make it all about her. Record phonecalls to her/from her to others when your dad is out (date & time at least) so you can point them out to your dad when he returns on the next phone bill.
2006-08-13 20:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your older not a kid so why don't you hire a private investigator to get the goods on her she sounds sleazy, or you can record her while she leads you on and play it back to your dad all the times she Say's things to you .It might sound bad but if your old enough like 18 or older id get out if I were you let your dad be a big boy .I hope if she is being sleazy your father finds out soon.
2006-08-13 20:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by stefania_n2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tricky question and maybe you should be really sure that she is having an affair if you do decide to tell your dad cause if your not 100% sure you may cause ww3 and you don't want that do you?
2006-08-13 20:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by Tigerlilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and him need to have a sit down and just explain that you don’t mean to be rude and you might be wrong but you think she’s cheating on him and has even made passes at you. If you have the relationship that you clamed he will understand and things will be better.
2006-08-13 20:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would she be wanting 2 have an affair with you?!? weird..... anyhow..... if you suspect anything then just tell your dad when he's not mad or anything, and make sure it's in private.
2006-08-13 20:20:56 · answer #7 · answered by ctwrabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u dont trust that women n maybe that will make your dad on aware.
if u can
find solid prove to show to your dad
2006-08-13 20:17:12 · answer #8 · answered by maroonfive86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like im trying to be funny but im not.
just walk up to him and say dad i think your fiance is a liar a cheater and i dont think shes faithful.
as long as u dont think he'll hit u for that then he'll say somthing along the lines of wtf then you explain
2006-08-13 20:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by not me but you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont say anything until you're sure and you have proof. just keep your eyes open and remember that you could ruin two peoples lives if you are wrong
2006-08-13 20:18:26 · answer #10 · answered by ;-) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋