When my dad was leaving out of town she asked if I wanted to go on a road trip with her in front of my dad, who is a very trusting kind of person, but when she did she winked at me when my dad wasnt looking, she also brushed my hair one day telling me she liked it and has done other things that lead me to beleive she wants to have affair with me, which i would never even consider i love my dad and god too much to ever to do something so low but i think she might also be having affairs with other men as well, how do I tell my dad this?
2006-08-13 20:13:15 · 15 answers · asked by knowledge2u4usa 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Call Cheaters.
www.cheaters.com
And make sure you keep us posted on when the show airs. ;-)
Joey Greco rocks!
2006-08-13 20:16:42 · answer #1 · answered by The First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be very careful. If you do not have something solid to back up allegations of this kind you could be made to look like a jealous child wanting dad to yourself. I am not saying you don't have reason to be concerned. Pray to God and ask for his guidance as well. If you feel in your heart that dad will truly understand then tell him. It is good to know that you care so much about your dad.
2006-08-13 20:22:54 · answer #2 · answered by wolfy1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You didn't say how close you are to your dad. If you've always had open and honest conversations with him, then he should be willing to listen to what you have to say. However, if in the past your dad seemed distant and unwilling to listen to you, then experience and the school of hard knocks might be the only way he will learn. There's a saying that goes something like this: "Love Is Blind" - and maybe love has temporarily blinded your dad from seeing the truth.
2006-08-13 20:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by MAC4Me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you're paranoid and delusional to jump to such extreme beliefs based on the evidence you've presented. Ask your dad to set up an appointment for you with a local therapist.
If you chose to act on these unfounded opinions without legitimate proof, you risk hurting your father ... his fiancee ... and yourself.
2006-08-13 20:17:56 · answer #4 · answered by Arkangyle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by the way ask ur father to get her a purdah/burkhah , that will help her to lower her gaze.
and if she tries to do something, report it to ur papa, so that he is not cheated. he must be trusting u for support and thruth. give it to him.
may be u could go out only with ur papa alone and tell him everything honestly. u are young to be exploited and take a stand for urself.
may Allah bless u.
2006-08-13 20:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "Dad, the woman you are planning to marry is a cheater and a liar."
2006-08-13 20:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you honestly must have proof...many parents won't believe unless they see it with their own eyes... new marriages makes parents not believe their children cause of the new parent-factor. so try to get some visual or physical proof so he can actually see it...
2006-08-13 20:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by Jackie Diane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to tell him....if not he'll find out the hard way and you'll have to live with that....he might get mad? break his heart ....who knows..but i think telling him would be an act of love......your dad comes first..not her!!! he may not even believe you...that would be sad...if it comes to it get something recorded....good luck to you and your dad..
2006-08-13 20:20:30 · answer #8 · answered by Happy Summer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't do anything with her she is disgusting... do u have someone u can trust to go with u to ur dad? just tell him she makes u uncomfortable... and yaeh, call that show cheaters, they'll help you.
2006-08-13 20:20:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Test her, see what she does. Then tell your dad.
2006-08-13 20:17:09 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋