Okay, so im 14 n my Boyfriend is about to be 16, he has been my 1st boyfriend.. N alot of guys dont come after me, n girls are like.. Well He can get n-e girl he wants, I am so confused.. See, hes homeschooled, so he doesnt really know what kind of girls are out there, if he was in normal school, I gaurentee he wouldnt be going out with me, I go to his house, or should I say street? We hang outside, n his whole family is weird.. N I dont think I really like him, its just that he will be the only person I get for a while, cause I know no-one will want to be my boyfriend.. I knoe if I broke up with him (again) Then I would just go back with him (again) He makes me feel good about my self, I still just dont know what to do.. I really do want to be just friends with him, but I cant, I tried that..
2006-08-13 20:10:03 · 6 answers · asked by confused... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Babygirl, you just have to sever all contact with him. It does not sounds like a very healthy relationship. You need to just let him go. And why do you say no other boy will like you? Please work on self-esteem. You are young and will have plenty of bf.s. so stop hanging around some one you don't like but makes you feel good. That's bad for you and him. Your only 14, just let him go and move on. Please don't hurt yourself anymore.
2006-08-13 20:18:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have self issues like self esteem try concentrating on yourself for a while insted of fake relationships because these will just make you feel worse about yourself in the future and remember there is someone for everyone and hes probably looking for you now so get it together and sort yourself out luv you dont need a man yet
2006-08-14 03:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by magnum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what baby girl, what u need is SELF ESTEEM MAKE OVER. i dont know why nobody will come after u, but i believe eveyone is beautiful in their own way. u have to tell urself u wont settle for anything less, i mean, u are only 14,dont leave up to a guy to define u, walk with your head up straighgt and never settle for anything less! If the guys dont come after u, then tell urself its becoz they cant match up to ur standards.u dont like this guy so stop wasting ur time and get some self confidence...!
2006-08-14 03:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweetie, you are 14 and have plenty of good years left, as the old saying goes..."there are plenty fish in the sea" so i say, if you are unhappy kick him to the curb, which isnt too far considering you guys are in the street already. lol but try to do it in a way with out hurting him..say things like, you are my best friend and i dont want to ruin that. you know, things that wont make him hurt. be honest. best way to go. good luck. remember....you are young, many more years to come with stinky boys.
2006-08-14 03:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by chickfilet7786 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh....if you don't like him like a boyfriend, then you should leave. Don't waste your time being unhappy, you're still young, so you have plenty of time to find the right guy.
2006-08-14 03:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he that handsome?
y dont u like him?
tell him bout it n maybe he can change it for u.
if ure just staying with him becoz u dont want to be singlr then i think that's not fair for him
girl, u can survive without a bf!
2006-08-14 03:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by maroonfive86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋