How do i tell my dad?

Question

ok im 15 years old and my dad wont let me talk to boys on da phone or go with them he say im to young for a boyfriend.bad part is i have a boyfriend and we been talkin since i was 6 or 5 and we started dating when i was 12 and i really love him to def and i dont like lyin to my dad so how do i till him i really like this boy and i would like for them to get alone and his my bf.so how do i tell him ?
or do i?

Answer 1

be honest with your dad and tell him that you love that boy and you want to be with him ..

Answer 2

1) Tell your dad the whole thing. While it is difficult to do, it is one of the first important lessons you have to learn while you are at the doorstep of adulthood.

Always be honest with those close to you and never hide anything. Nothing good comes from hiding facts.

Keep in mind that your dad is paying for everything and his rules, unfortunately or fortunately, are the only rules in the house.

If your dad is a reasonable man, he will understand your emotions and may surprise you with his reaction.

But bottomline is that you must tell him what you are up to.

Goodluck...by the way, many adults, at one time or another, were in the same boat as you are. So take heart, they all survived!

Answer 3

Your dad knows better than you for sure, he just want the best for you, but I also understand you for being inlove with your boyfriend. But I think you're really still young for that. Maybe it's just an infatuation. BUt since he is already your boyfriend, try to talk to your dad. Tell him that you're sorry coz you didn't listen to him and that you have a boyfriend, be honest to him. Maybe he'll get mad, but tell him that he doesn't have to worry coz you will still be very serious with your studies and be sure that both of you and your boyfriend will wait till the right time that you do things that are just for mature people. tell him that you will be responsible for all the desicions that you may have.

Answer 4

You know we think as teenagers that parents don't understand. But now that I am a parent teaching teenagers, I can tell you to listen to your father. Your dad will not tell you anything that could harm you. Plus remain a kid as long as you can. Boys are always going to be there and if you just allow yourself to grow up and become an intelligent young lady, you will learn how to choose the right guy for you.

Answer 5

sit down with your dad, just when things are calm. Dont try talking to him about it when your in an argument or anything. You need to prove to him that you are mature enough to have a boyfriend. By sitting down with him, it shows you have respect and some maturity. Just tell him how you feel. He may not like the idea at first, but he'll think about.. more so then if you dont bring it up.. and you never know, he may come around to the idea.

good luck and best wishes

Answer 6

i had the same problem. just talk to him. what worked for me was i was all excited and i was like "DAD! guess what! this really cute bot just asked me out! and i sed yes! my first boyfriend!!! Dad i am so happy with him, he has been all i could think about for weeks!" then i gave him a huge hug. he was basically in shock the whole time but if you act VERY and i mean VERY excited about the whole deal shmeel thingy, i am pretty sure your dad will be all sentimental about it just make it clear to him that this boy is not like other boys and that you mean the world to him, and if in the end if he has a problem with it just get angry and make sure that he knows there is NOTHING he can do about it...LOL goood luck

Answer 7

sit down with your dad some where go out for a coke or something get him alone and say dad i know you don't trust with a boy but i have had a boyfriend since i was 6 yr. old i have done nothing wrong with him. i would just love to be able to have him over here at the house please dad i'm to young to have sex . please just go with me this time and let me show you you can trust me please dad this is coming from a 67 yr. old dad. your dad need to be able to be able to trust you. he then can tell this boy i don't want to be a grand father yet

Answer 8

heck, even i think 15 is too young.... however if you really care about this issue then have all 3 of you sit down together and let you're dad help make some rules. it's better to live within a restriction for a while then not to have him at all.

Answer 9

well i have been there and it is hard for dad's to get that there baby girl is growing up . try to sit down with your dad and talk to him . tell him that you are not a baby anymore and that you really like this guy . and you would love for him to met him . tell your dad all the great things about him . tell your dad that you love him and that you will always be his little girl . but you would like to start dating this guy. whatever you do don't tell him that ya'll have went out or that ya'll or going out . but tell your dad to just think about it and let you know . i hope that this little bit will help you out . good luck and p.s you do need to tell your dad cuz i no that it will eat you up keeping something from him it always did me.

Answer 10

Well, what you have to do is to talk to your mom. Usually, women can relate to each other. Ask her if she can put in a few words for you to your dad. I can understand your situation because I'm in the same shoes as you. If he doesn't approve, then I guess you'll have to wait a few more years. But try the "mom" solution first. Good luck.

Answer 11

be really good friends. start dating only when the both of you feel ready and that you can handle things as adults. and you might have time to think whether he's the right one for you too.

the reason why your dad thinks you are too young is that he doesn't want you to make the wrong decisions.. in which when you are older.. you might think "i shouldn't have done that"

good luck!