2006-08-13 20:04:36 · 11 answers · asked by happie_julie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
does quarrelling really improve relationship and understanding??
2006-08-13 20:20:41 · update #1
I dont think its normal or helpful in anyway.
Go ask yourself these things:
1) How many times do u feel happy with him, vice versa for him. If the good outweight the bad , good for u.. talk out and work out this pattern.
I realised from experiences that Quarrels are like patterns. Its a habit. If u have a habit to quarrel twice a week, it will be like tt.
Secondly ask youself, can u see yourself being like this with him for the next.. let's say 20 yrs? No?
Nobody wants to be unhappy.. so don't allow yourself to be in an unhappy relationship.
Who always gives up their pride and apologise first, him or you. Do u really wanna carry on this unstable relationship? Good luck
2006-08-15 01:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by Joan20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frequent quarrel with bf/gf everyday, will not improve the relationship. It will instead damage the relationship. Why ? because both of you should tolerate each other with mutual understanding then quarrel can be avoided in this case, agree ?
2006-08-14 01:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, something is very wrong if u quarrel everyday, maybe once in a while is ok, cos we are all different, so occassionally when we quarrel, it is to iron out the minor differences, practices, cultures, habits, lifestyles in other words between both, so things can be set straight again. If u do quarrel everyday, i think both of you have too much differences and it's better to give up the relationship.
2006-08-13 21:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by firefly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, It depends on what is the topic tt both of you can't see eye to eye. It is a very dangerous sign tt both of u can quarrel everyday. As a couples we have to learn to forgive and forget all unhappiness and try to bear with each other too. Ppl are different, so sometimes we can quarrel over something but it is advisable to thrash out all differences, practices, cultures, habits, lifestyles between both of u. So in future both of u can understand each other better.
2006-08-14 01:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not natural or should i say it's abnormal to quarrel wif ur partner everyday. i dun deny dat quarrelling do helps a couple to understand one another better but if it's a everday thing den i'm sure something will go wrong to dis couple sooner or later.
If by quarellin everyday will help den i would haf quarelled wif my ex everyday.... wahahahaha..... no girl....never try doin dat to ur bf everyday yeah!
2006-08-14 15:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by wonderland83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Why would you want to be with someone that you quarrel with every day...how miserable is that!
2006-08-13 20:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends... i think couples go through phases where they fights all the time...it's like a test... I went through it in my relationship...it's when it gets so bad that the bad outways the good that you have to be worried.... now the only time i ever argue with my boyfriend is when I'm PMSing or somthing.
2006-08-13 20:13:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why quarrel when both of you can have sex?
2006-08-14 05:41:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh wuhh?! i fight everyday with my bf. he just makes me so annoyed. isnt this normal? lol i think it is. normal in my relationship. lol
2006-08-13 20:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by chickfilet7786 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should try and coomunicate without fighting
2006-08-13 20:12:50 · answer #10 · answered by Khristian B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋