It seems that its my friends who r always gettin laid and I'm the dumbass waiting for the 'one'. What shud I do, is it wise to wait or shud I enjoy in the meantime?
2006-08-13 19:47:43 · 15 answers · asked by bchboy_998 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love at first sight doesn't always mean that you're going to get LAID!
Yes there is always a thing such as love at first sight. Usually one should be open enough to acknowledge the interest and attention of others...that's where you give chance to love at first sight.
There are people who are apprehensive/closed to new contacts of the opposite sex. You've to determine what type you are...if the first choice doesn't suit you then be patient until that "someone" actually reaches you and breaks the ice.
2006-08-13 19:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by sameer s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres no such thing as love at first site. I know we like to believe such magical things but it doesnt exist. You can be infatuated by a person but thats different. Thats lust not love. Anyways man i was like you at one point. Set the bar too high and was waiting for "the One." There were a lot of people that cared for me and really loved me but didnt fit that prototype i was looking for. Then i realised that if every person waited for that perfect person than very few people would be dating or married. You have to learn to love a person for who they are. Love their perfections and imperfections. I think that you should try to find a person that you can connect with at an emotional level. Go out there and find that right person. Hope this helps.
2006-08-14 02:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by InquisitiveDude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that those that are getting laid are the ones that subject themselves to each and every person they have been in contact with. They have a greater risk or STD's and pregnancy and finding the right one with all the baggage that goes with it.
Wait my friend, it will make it that more special and deserving....don't risk the consequences until you are sure....
Your smart, very smart!!
2006-08-14 02:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by teddybearloverus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Yes there is. I never believed in it before. I met a guy when I was 15. I actually crashed into him in a park, while walking with my dog. I looked up, our eyes met and fell in love. Forever. It can happen only once. That was 12 years ago.
2006-08-14 02:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you can enjoy, but when the real one comes.. you are going to regret the enjoyment. THere is one thing in life that is not exactly nice, that is regrets. Choose your options, I am sure you will find your one. There are almost 7 billion people in this world, your chances are very high.
2006-08-14 02:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by epooji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait. I just got married two months ago and I will admit I had sex with other girl friends before getting married (and they were good) but since I got married the sex is awesome and the best I have ever had!!!!
2006-08-14 04:48:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes , there is such a thing as love at first sight ..........
but in the meantime , go out and meet some people , have a little fun . there is someone for you ..........
be patient ............
cheers !
2006-08-14 02:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by BIGG AL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait four the person that actually means something to you. Just screwing everything that moves can really wreck you’re life. Believe me when you find the "one" it will be all the more enjoyable.
2006-08-14 02:55:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, there is it called infatuation. This condition occurs when 2 sometimes adult humans wanna fcuk each other.
Secondly, Ur friends are probably sluts. and thirdly no u should not b 1
2006-08-14 02:54:57 · answer #9 · answered by Bare Azz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is not such a thing love at first sight and it all bullshiut and it not true and i don't really believe such as love at first sight............
2006-08-14 03:03:51 · answer #10 · answered by ali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋