i think im falling in love with a man whos 26 years older than iam, im a legal age, and i think he likes me too as well, but im worried, should i move on? or should i tell him how i feel?
2006-08-13 19:36:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forget him, hes too old
2006-08-13 19:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by TO BE CONTINUED.... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on girl, In this situation you can almost rely on a males ego or just even human nature to be attracted to younger women its almost second nature but all this is is a fantasy (if only i was 26 years younger) idle thought so trying to get involved with this man could be the worst thing you ever do keep your innocence for now or at least until someone relatively your own age which might not seem it now but is very important comes along because otherwise you and this other guy will have nothing in common apart from the age gap and shared trouble these kind of relationships bring DONT DO IT ask your friends they will be against it just as much.
2006-08-14 02:47:27 · answer #2 · answered by magnum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really think you are in love with this guy, you better think about some things. I am married to a man 8 years older than me and I am seeing things that are causing problems. He is 66 and I am 58. He is having trouble hearing and I have to repeat a lot of what I say, his vision is getting so bad in one eye that he wants to have Lasik surgery, he has aches and pains all the time,and he would rather stay home than even go out to eat. Just think what it would be like in the future. You may be this man's nurse, not his wife or lover. It is a big age difference and things happen as you get older. I would think strongly and maybe try to see the future. Of course, if you truly love the man, as I do my husband, age does not matter and you would do anything for him.
2006-08-14 02:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree hes much to old. i mean love can be found anywhere within a legal age. but if you go with a man 26 years older than you people are going to talk.
but what can i say if you love him go for it
2006-08-14 02:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by not me but you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel, If you don't love him forever then just break up. But hey, some relationships really do work out even if there's a huge age difference.
2006-08-14 02:41:33 · answer #5 · answered by bec3tiny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've stated that you're worried; so you probably shouldn't get into something you're obviously not comfortable with.
2006-08-14 02:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by Lyttle_Starr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but that much apart is not good with old ppl parts
2006-08-14 02:39:38 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only hope this is not an "internet" romance you are talking about here...
2006-08-14 02:39:35 · answer #8 · answered by Jon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him he's oo old.
2006-08-14 02:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by BoRiQuA_MaMi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋