my mum treats my brother like an angel but has been putting me down all my life she doesnt give a damn about how i feel and when i talk to her about it it just gets worse my dad is no different and my brother thinks hes god they know that but they still treat like an angel. the only one who understands my situation is my sister and she lives 9 hours away
2006-08-13 19:27:05 · 14 answers · asked by teenchatter10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
no i am not english i am a true blue aussie i mean u didnt want me to say "mam" did u?
2006-08-13 19:50:01 · update #1
Don't let them draw you, don't raise your voice, don't argue with your parents, don't even complain about anything, get a college degree out of them and then move away and see them less than twice a year.
If they are still rude and you are still invisible to them, cut them off and stay out of touch.
2006-08-13 19:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing for you to do is stop worring about it .....
i was in the same position when i was a kid and i would get so worked up over and then i hit about the age of thirteen when i just decided that i did not care any more if they wanted it to be that way they were the ones missing out so i actually got to do more ...
see i quit having fits about my sister being the favorite instead i would draw more attention to her and then say things like i need to go out for a bit and they were so distracted they would not even notice i was gone before long i had become the invisible one but i was also out hanging with my friends doing better in school and and having more fun because they were not stuck up my ass
in stead of being pissed just turn it all around if he does any thing good or bad you make a big deal about it too soon they will think you are on board with them and you will be free of all well most parental hassels hope this helps
2006-08-13 19:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by natashapink82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you have friends? They will be a good outlet for that kind of problem. You can't do anything with your family, that's the way they are and you just gotta put up with them with A LOT of understanding. You will find your own happiness with other people, like friends or when you get to have a family of your own. If you want attention, try to excell in your studies or work and maybe then your parents will notice you.. but that shouldn't be your motivation, always think that you do it for yourself and everything else will follow. Good luck.
2006-08-13 19:36:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, there is nobody in this world without a Cross in life. This Cross is not meant to crush us but is given from above to serve as a way to God where you can rest. If God is enough for you, then you will not seek any kind of affection from anyone or from anything. Only then can you have the happiness and love you are seeking because God and His love is eternal. The only love that can satisfy any human longing. Seek this love from Christ and you will be given fullness of joy and you will be the one who will give love to your family instead of asking it from them.
2006-08-13 19:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sehr_A 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the youngsters are your nephews/nieces so tell them off in the event that they decide on it, communicate on your sister in the event that they have come to circulate to because of the fact your Mum has been ill, then she would desire to do greater advantageous than watch the small screen television, that's no longer a relax for her. advise your Dad takes your Mum out for the day faraway from each and every physique for some TLC. Take a pair of days off artwork and take the youngsters out for the day, a picnic in a park and play soccer/rounders or take them swimming - positioned on them out, that way they're going to circulate to mattress before and not make noise at evening. show them to think of approximately human beings their Gran/Grandad for one. Take the youngsters for a protracted walk with the canines and throw a ball get them to savor the canines and puppy them. earlier you be conscious of it the week would be long previous and their circulate to over, solid success
2016-09-29 06:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by schnetter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out
2006-08-13 19:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just keep going to school so you can get a good job and move the heck out!
2006-08-13 19:32:46 · answer #7 · answered by FerretLover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the circus, it worked for the Baily Bros.
2006-08-13 19:44:51 · answer #8 · answered by da_Boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should..go on with your life...and make sure in your family it;s a pozitive atmosphere...you should talk to them like everything it's ok...and speak in a good way about your brother in front of them...you will see...things are going to change;)
2006-08-13 19:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by pussycat d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send them to my throne and I'll give them some words from the wise!!
2006-08-13 19:34:42 · answer #10 · answered by The King 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋