This man has a girlfriend that he lives with. I found out after I was head over hills. I thought I could deal with it but i cannot. I am so weak for hime. Just last week he told me to stop acting like a victim and he did not force me into this relationship. I said okay and hung up the phone, feeling releived for the last time. He called me back and stated, yes he has someone in his life, but he does not know how long it will last. That he loves me and asked me to hold on for a while. He has been calling everyday saying he loves me, he misses me etc. I want him, I just can't stand the games. Just tonight he called me twice from home, the nerve. His secret is out. What would you do? No I am not a vicitm.
2006-08-13 19:26:12 · 8 answers · asked by victory 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is using you.It almost sounds like he likes to keep a spare on the side just in case his current relationship doesn't work.You deserve better.
2006-08-13 19:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're a victim. Grow a spine. Embrace your self esteem. Don't ever talk to the guy again.
You can do better.
2006-08-14 02:30:04 · answer #2 · answered by Kenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this Robin? I knew Batman was gay. That's why every time you see him with a new hot chick he never marries them: because he's got Robin on the side!
2006-08-14 02:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him , he is cheating on her as he is cheating on you. He would always play games, guys like this never change their mind, they don't even know what love is.
So better leave that loser, he is not worth a bullet !!
( I know it is easier said than done, so GOOD LUCK )
2006-08-14 02:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by willow, the yodakitty from hell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
moveeeeeeeeeeeeeee on girl if he is unfaithful to her your next when he has you you will feel safe and then bingo you find out he has another girl on the side. guess if he dosen't use a condom what ever she might have so will you including oral sex would you like it if you knew he had had oral sex and then and kissed you bummer. there is crap out there that will kill you move on to someone who will be faithful to you.
2006-08-14 02:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by dalecollins64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not a vicitum, stop acting like it cause girl if you weren't then what do you think your doing know? Let him go and move on!
2006-08-14 02:38:51 · answer #6 · answered by Divine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your phone number, block his number, ignore him. You found one guy, there's squillions more out there. Grow a spine.
2006-08-14 02:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by R. F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call his girlfriend and dump him.....
2006-08-14 02:40:30 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋