I keep thinking about sex. Not like I want to but I just think about it, Somtimes I listen to songs that aren't age apropriate and dream about sexual stuff. Please don't think im weird. Is this normal? Maybe early hormones? Im wondering because Im FREAKED out.
2006-08-13 19:07:12 · 18 answers · asked by Cecilia 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
There's no reason you simply CAN'T be ready to explore your desires at this age. But unless you are sure what you want you'll likely end up hurting yourself or others needlessly. You are ultimately responsible for what happens to you so your activities require not just passion but thought. Your first time could either be in a drunken stupor with some random older teen or it could be a mutal exploration, done safely with condoms on, with someone in your grade or only slightly older. Love and lust are always mixed up no matter how old you are, so there's no point in denying it. But the hot guy you like this week and let feel your breasts might dump you next week and break your heart or expect you to marry him and you'll have to break his. Just practice safe sex: Condoms + lubrication + talking about it + understanding your body which implies self knowledge, also known as masturbation.
2006-08-13 19:55:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are more than normal, almost any teenager or adult that u ask will have had the same experiances as u. I'm 13 and I think about the same stuff. If u ask someone who is ur age and older if they have thoughts about sex and they say no, they're most likely lieng. Idk why our society is so afraid to admit to thinking about stuff like that, EVERYBODY DOES. Don't be freaked out at all, people don't think ur weird ur perfectly normal. i had a dream about the same thing last night.
2006-08-13 19:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by politicaltnt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't freak out - over the next 5 years your body is going to go thru heaps of weird things - BUT THEY ARE ALL NORMAL. Well, at least you should start with that assumption and see a doctor or ask a parent/friend if in pain etc.
Life is good
2006-08-13 19:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be freaked out and its not weird your in a position where your body is feeling all kinds of thoughts and emotions and your confused and its perfectly normal for someone your age. you are going from a boy to a teenager and its a time to make decisions about sex. the only decision you need to worry about is should i or should'nt i? you are your own body and just like a girl you have the right to say no and do the things you want to without peer pressure. you will go thru many changes your friends, thier friends, drinking,smoking,sex. you do what you feel is right no matter what anyone else tells you. you are the one who has to livewith the decision you make not anyone else. dont be afraid when you have these feelings thats all they are and like you said you dont want to act out on them
2006-08-13 19:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by oceanlady580 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Precocious Puberty
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Synonyms
Familial Testotoxicosis
Gonadotropin-Independent Familial Sexual Precocity
Pubertas Praecox
Disorder Subdivisions
Idiopathic Precocious Puberty
Isosexual Precocious Puberty
Heterosexual Precocious Puberty
True Precocious Puberty
Central Precocious Puberty
Peripheral Precocious Puberty
Male-Limited Precocious Puberty
Gonadotropin-Dependent Precocious Puberty
Gonadotropin-Independent Precocious Puberty
2006-08-13 19:13:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, quite the opposite, it is good for a 12 year old and perfectly normal. You would probably be abnormal if you didn't think such thoughts.
It is probably normal too to think that these thoughts are weird since you haven't had them before and since some aspects of culture may want you to think of them as weird.
2006-08-13 19:37:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very normal, just remember that you're nowhere's near ready for the real thing. Talk to your mom, older sister, a favorite female teacher; any older female you feel comfortable talking to can give you some comfort.
2006-08-13 19:15:22 · answer #7 · answered by Nited1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual dreams - happen to pretty much everyone, if someone says they don't they're probably lying.
Songs that aren't "age appropriate" - Bullshit created by over protective parents.
Thinking about sex - puberty
SOLUTION IF BEING HORNY INTERFERES WITH DAILY LIFE IS MASTURBATE
2006-08-13 20:50:06 · answer #8 · answered by Dictator Threb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're worrying about nothing. I remember being like 7 and going through the same thing.
2006-08-13 19:10:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, your normal. Trust me, I think my LiL' bro, hes 12 too, is the most perverted person I have eva met. No one can be weirder than him. LOL
2006-08-13 19:14:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋