2006-08-13 18:52:16 · 28 answers · asked by uknowit 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Genealogy
If she's your girlfriend, she's already looking beyond your outward appearance and she's found something she likes. Realize your own worth. We can't expect others to love us if we don't love ourselves. What does she like to do? If she likes camping, take her. Show her you care about her interests. Take her to her favorite restaurant. Leave a poem on her pillow...not the generic store-bought kind, but something handwritten and from the heart.
2006-08-13 19:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
•Be a gentleman, always open the door for her. Complement how she looks, cook her dinner, etc.
•Dress nicely, go buy new clothes. Get nice shoes. If you can't afford it, get a small loan if you have a job.
•Groom yourself : Shave, trim nose hairs, pluck eyebrows, get a good haircut, always have good breath (keep gum with you at all times). Don't buy deodorant just because it's cheap, get something that lasts and smells good. Cologne as well, make sure it's not too strong, just a dab on your neck, wrists, etc.
•Read all the current events and news on the Internet. Find odd news, or anything interesting. This way you're have good conversation starters, or ice breakers. This will also make you seem like you're interested in the world. I would believe this attitude would be attractive to your girlfriend.
•Find a hobby, or resume a hobby you used to have. Learn how to dance, and take her to a dance, or a nice restaurant with dancing.
•Your long term goal would be to lose some of the weight, don't do anything that you don't like. Because you'll lose interest in exercising in general. Do fun stuff like swimming, or playing some sort of sports with your friends.
•Avoid any kind of self pity or negative feelings about yourself. Being positive will bring positive results in your relationship.
Good luck!
2006-08-14 02:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by cornelius_joe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her to start doing some physical activities we you a few times of week. Like walking, biking, rollerblading, playing ball, hiking, swimming. You can have fun together and get in shape at the same time. She will see that your trying to better yourself and she will be proud of you.
2006-08-16 13:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by LOIS ANN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just roll over the thought. Be FAT in your words and deeds. That'll take care of other fats.
2006-08-14 02:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well im a girl just be ur self but if u want to her to c that u lost wight then run or jog aroung the block every day then do a couple push ups a day then u notice u do after a whle u lost some wight and i no that cause im a girl and im 78 and im 11
2006-08-14 02:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by Josi 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if she's worth impressing, you can do that by just being yourself, or by doing something romantic.
2006-08-14 01:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by Licorice 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey bro, you have a girlfriend, something tells me you have already impressed her! just keep doing what you're doing man, work that magic:)
2006-08-14 05:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by SivGiger78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont think a fat guy cant impress gals...a fat guy with a nice wallet and wheels can impress any gal...
2006-08-14 02:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by hotgy4999 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
If she love u as u are....why r u worried?Or r u trying to impress her frds...Take heart that inner beauty counts.So GOD bless!
2006-08-14 02:03:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could wear some fat hiding clothing colors. Like Black very slimming, or even stripes.
2006-08-14 01:59:21 · answer #10 · answered by Niaomi W 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋