I was really hurt by the last two guys I dated and they were both long term relationships. The last one was over 6 months ago. I have been asked out by a couple of guys since then but I couldn't bring myself to give them a chance. Now I think I have found someone that I could honestly see being with but I am to damn scared to tell him how I feel... what do I do?
2006-08-13 18:42:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take a long time to have sex, if he really likes you, he will stick around, if not he will be gone after a second or third date, but at least you won't be hurt.
2006-08-13 19:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by venus11224 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then do go out with him
unless you have rid yourself of your baggage
you have no business bring any sort of that into some new guy
after all he ideally has to do the same thing
no realationship needs to start with one or both parties holding back out of fear something might happen all over again
you can check to make sure certain things are there
but in the end if he walks
then he walks
you must learn to go on
2006-08-14 01:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
know him more. once u do so u will be sure about how u feel. then u wont be scared anymore.
it's so normal to be scared now,but it's not normal to keep on going like that. u simply should understand that no one has the right to make ur life bad.
u control it.
and spend sometime with that guy and know him better!
good luck!
2006-08-14 01:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by Musty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful don't rush into it, you have the rest of your life.Take each day as it comes ,just go out for a coffee for a start. ask him around to your place first. see how it goes. Good Luck!
2006-08-14 01:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suck it up.
Think of the alternative. Are you going to hide in your house for the rest of your life? Of course not.
And what you mean to say is," I ALLOWED the last two guys I dated to hurt me..." No one has any power over you that you do not allow them to have.
Seems to me that they still have this power.
Now, what are you going to do about it?
Best of luck to you!
2006-08-14 01:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep going on , at least for another six month , you will get enough time and opportunity to share your feeling , don't rush tings , let it happen natural way , so just enjoy meeting him .
2006-08-14 01:47:22 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The past is in the past. It's time to move on. Talk to the guy and tell him how you feel.
2006-08-14 01:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by Steph 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in my experience, be careful and protect your heart. give yourself time to heal and then see if this person is worth your heart. people tend to think that they have to have someone in there lives and therefore get involved with another relationship before they have healed from another. i say be patient and see if this person is worth it
2006-08-14 01:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by Knuckles06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him and tell him how you feel
If he's a good guy then he's going to appreciate you
2006-08-14 01:47:41 · answer #9 · answered by ELEN G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORGET ABOUT THE PAST GIRL!
IF YOU LIVE IN THE PAST, YOU'LL REGRET IT LATER.
LIVE NOW RATHER THAN LEAVE IN THE PAST AND THEN HAVE TO WONDER HOW YOUR LIFE WOULD HAVE BEEN IF YOU WOULD'VE TAKEN A CHANCE.
2006-08-14 01:48:35 · answer #10 · answered by ...guess.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋