ok my bday is on friday and me and my boyfriend r gunna have sex i am a virgin and he is not what is the best position (no anal eeeewwww)
2006-08-13 17:40:29 · 12 answers · asked by baby blue eyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am turnin 19 he is 18 we have been datin 4 abt 6 months and we r totally in love and ia sked him if he wanted 2 do it
2006-08-13 17:55:55 · update #1
make sure tht he uses condom to prevent u from acquiring std's nd pregnancy.try using missionary position or doggy style as these r most comfortable . dont let him do too much at first time . ya one thing more as u r virgin there will be bleeding as ur vagina will be tight nd u'll have mambrane intact so try havin a towel near u to prevent the mess .if wanna ask more contact me online yahoo id dee00009
2006-08-13 17:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin, be sure you want to do this. I know, I know, he's your boyfriend and all, but be sure. I'm a middle aged man and I have an 18yr old daugher and I gave her the same advice. After that its down to you. And I know what young men (boyz) like. And, old or young, I am a man. Please be sure that this is what you want and not what you've been convinced to want. Think about it. I'll bet you are a fine young woman with a great future dont make the mistake of believeing that this has to happen now, cos that is rubbish. If its what you want, on your terms and he is genuine and a good guy... have a wonderful wonderful time, because it is a wonderful gift.
2006-08-14 00:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by twerf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with Tina. Your virginity is precious and it is something that you can't get back. Please truly think before you do this. If this is what you want to do then that is fine, but I hope this is a serious boyfriend because sex is more than physical, it also emotional and spiritual. If you are sure then protection, fun and the missionary position are the best way to do it.
2006-08-14 01:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by caramel_angelkiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, how old are you and how long have you been dating? You shouldn't have sex "just because" its your bday!! You are not ready if you have to take a poll. And Im sure your boyfriend is being ever so loving and excited about this. All guys are, especially if they know they are about to break in a virgin. Sister girl, make sure this person is really worth making this choice for.
2006-08-14 00:50:47 · answer #4 · answered by marie167 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First time, missionary (boy on top, you laying on your back on the bed) is best. You can change it up after that once you get the hang of it.
Enjoy, and don't get PREGNANT!
2006-08-14 00:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good old fashioned missionary position. You get on bottom, he gets on top and let him take it from there. Don't forget protection.
2006-08-14 00:46:10 · answer #6 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r a virgin, be on top. u can control how how soon or how deep his penis will go inside your vagina. also put lots of KY jelly inside and around the lips of ur vagina for lubrication.
2006-08-14 04:25:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
home girl that is not a good birthday present like seriously and than its your birthday i wouldn't do it at all you need to listen to lyfe jennings S.E.X. than decide if thats what you wanna do it should'nt be something thats given away because its your birthday or any one elses
2006-08-14 00:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
him on top is the most romantic i think itll make him in control and show him u trust him
2006-08-14 00:43:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have plenty of foreplay:) Just let it happen. Guy on top!!
2006-08-14 00:47:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋