I am a very nice guy, but very shy once it comes to things like the first kiss, etc... After it is initiated, I become more affectionate than passive, but i think that comes in due time. I ususally don't even think about kissing agirl until the 3rd or 4th date... Do girls like guys who are aggressive or passive?? Do shy guys finish last ???
2006-08-13 17:39:16 · 6 answers · asked by O Jam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No Way Man!! I think your fine just the way you are. I mean you can't change it and why would you want to?? You just have to find someone for you. Any girl you find to be that easy, you definitely don't need. I don't like guys who are too aggressive, like all up on me or constantly say slick remarks. That Sh*t is Dumb!! and a major turn off in my Book!! I wouldn't want some dude trying to kiss me every time we went on a date, that would make me feel uncomfortable. You seem like a very nice person, unlike most of these Retards!! Just Hang in there you'll find the perfect girl soon enough.
Be Blessed..
2006-08-13 17:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by AAP0305 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know were your coming from. Some girls like shy guys cuz they think its sweet(in the beginnig). But then they get frustarted because they end up doing most of the work. About the first kiss thing, dont hesitate go for it. I used to do that and it sucked because i would regret it later. Once you become less shy things alot more easyer and fun. But dont become an ****** and be cocky. So it a delicate balance. Its up to YOU to know when shy is OK and wehen you HAVE to thake charge.
2006-08-13 17:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by Seyer c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I l.o.v.e shy guys...to an extent. I am ALL for taking things nice and slooooow. But. If I kiss a guy and he freaks out...thats not too cool. I mean, just cause the guy doensn't think about it, doesn't mean that i don't!! Shy guys dont' finish last if they date the right girls. Look for someone more dominant than yourself. A girl that will grab your hand and take the lead..
2006-08-13 18:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls do not like shy guys. Some do think it is cute for awhile, but if you are not bold and open, she will quickly lose interest.
2006-08-13 17:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i personally dont cuz it can come offf wrong to a grl and shes might not think ur into her soo u have to be twice as more charming and show her since ur not forward or anthing that u do lik her
2006-08-13 17:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we dont like them 2 be all up in our faces. we like it if they r open though.
2006-08-13 17:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by Liv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋