Last week i had a first date with a woman and it seemed to go really well,she was really affecionate the whole night(rubbing my leg,holding my hand..etc)she told me that i was exacttly her type and that we should go out again.she use to call or text everyday before the date just to say hello,then after the date i did'nt hear from her for like 3 days,then i called her and she said she was really busy and she would call me back ,well no phone call so i called her 2 days later and we just talked for a min,no phone call back.So then i called her and told her that it was nice meeting her but i was'nt going to call again because she did'nt seem interested and she said no i really like you but i've been busy,and she said she would call me later now it's been 3 days and no phone call,I know people get busy but u can't take 5 mins just to say helloI always do..Does this sound like just a game?
2006-08-13 17:34:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
should i call her and tell her to go f*ck herself...
2006-08-13 17:51:38 · update #1
Are you that desperate? You should have never called her in the first place . . . now she knows that you really want her, so she is going to play you as a fiddle.
You want my advice . . . don't call her back. Wait . . . if she calls you, let it go to your voice mail . . . or tell her you are in a meeting and that you will call her back. Then forget to call her. Do the same thing as she is doing to you.
After a month or so, send her a text message . . . name a place and a time, and tell her that you are free for drinks. After that . . . you can either talk with her or get her drunk. From the first date, she doesn't need much.
Hit it and quit it . . . because she sounds like too much work for a relationship (which she is not ready for . . . from the sounds of it.)
2006-08-21 10:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by Tag Your It 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a game
there is a saying I live by now
" those you care about you make time all others you make excuses"
your right to expect a call even if it's just "I'm very busy but thought you would like to know I was thinking about you. Bye"
it doen't take much to show consideration for another.
2006-08-14 00:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say it man but she sounds like if she is sincere when she says she really is interested then she may be to busy for a relationship at this time otherwise she could by full of it and is just stringing you along.
2006-08-14 00:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by aunt_melmo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could really be busy, but I have had a busy (really busy) schedule before, but I still found time to call someone. I think that she might really like you, but she might not want to get too close too soon. I have a cousin who is like that and if she really likes someone she will flirt and be open with the guy and then she will pull away.
2006-08-14 00:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by caramel_angelkiss 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Truthfully its hard to say. Ask yourself if she sounds sincere when she told u that she relaly does like you. But if this goes on for much longer, its probably a game. Give it a couple weeks and tell her after a while, if you really like me... take 1 hour out of your day to come see me. And you'll no the answer if she does or doesnt
2006-08-14 00:39:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't call her back that would look kinda desperate on your part. I think if she was really interested she would have taken the time to call you. Maybe she was wanting sex on the first date and got upset she doesn't sound shy.
2006-08-21 23:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by jennifer e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your that sweet to give her the time of day to call her and she cant call you she aint worth it!
you can do better to me it just sounds like she is playing games..
just leave it you are worth so much more then that so go out and have fum im sure you will meet some one!
Good luck
2006-08-14 00:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It could be she really is busy. People handle stress differently. I've known people like that and it doesn't mean she doesn't care or that she isn't thinking of you. If she's worth it to you, just give her space and let her come to you. She'll come around when she's ready.
2006-08-14 00:39:21 · answer #8 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude, your date sucked. Tell her to put down the crack pipe and get a job. It's a womans blow off. Like "I need some space"
2006-08-19 12:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by beatlepath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I would't call her back. She may be busy or playing games. You won't know till she gives you a call. Good luck.
2006-08-14 00:43:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋