my brother and i can be the best of friends at times, but other times we don't get along and he doesn't know when to stop fighting.what do i do??????
2006-08-13 17:24:12 · 10 answers · asked by probasket 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
alot of it is telling us no when we ask nicely to do something and mocking us like a mocking bird. another part of it is well acutally two things is that mom tells him to do something he walks off and then says no behind her back and the 2nd thing is when he starts something me and my sister get blamed 24 -7.
2006-08-13 17:39:02 · update #1
twin brother and sister and we are 10 yrs old
2006-08-13 17:40:17 · update #2
we are a twin brother and sister and are 10 years old.
2006-08-13 17:41:19 · update #3
Do the best to get along. Pick your battles and concede the smaller fights to him. My sister and I were the same way when we were younger. Now, we are best friends and we'd do anything for each other.
2006-08-13 17:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by Media Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, brothers and sisters have been fighting since the dawn of time.
Just relize some of it comes from living in the same house, some from knowing someone else too well, some of it is simply boredom.
You both will grow out of it.
Till then..... Be strong
2006-08-14 00:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by James F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice is to not really worry about it too much ... Me and my sister use to fight all the time!!! But then I went into the Army and once I was away from her I realized how important she is to me. So I'm sure he loves you ... but when you live with someone you're just naturally going to argue.
2006-08-14 00:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by the_skeema 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is called sybling rivalry and it has existed since the beginning of time. As you both grow up, that will change. But, sometimes it just pays to stay out of each others way.
2006-08-14 00:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient. My daughter and son were like that when they were growing up too. Now they are in their middle 20's and they have a great relationship. Good luck.
2006-08-14 00:39:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal family problem....
this sure have it in every family if they are 2 or 3 member in it...
2006-08-14 00:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Have this problem with my sister a lot. she ussually calms me down when she does something really nice for me.
2006-08-14 00:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by jesse_not_war 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't say how old you are...or how old your brother is...but think of the good of the family and think about what you fight about.....is it worth it?
Someone has to be the bigger person and let the argument go!
2006-08-14 00:35:21 · answer #8 · answered by yapest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your chin up i'm sure it'll get better besides i have to go through the same thing since i'm your sister.
2006-08-14 00:47:47 · answer #9 · answered by anomanous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here i really need this advice thing so i'll be watching for any thing use full
2006-08-14 00:30:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋