It's hard. I'm not going to lie to you. But if you really love the guy, it's worth it.
2006-08-13 16:55:29
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answered by Nited1 2
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I was active duty Air Force and also a military wife..If you are a person who does not have a life and interests of your own to keep you occupied during the long , lonely days that your man is gone, then honey ,....find yourself a civilian...Loving and being with someone in the military is meant for people who can put their own self-centered needs on the back burner and love the G.I., and Uncle Sam at the same time...There is an old saying in the military...If Uncle Sam wanted you to have a Wife(or girlfriend , or significant other) he would have issued you one..Good luck if you are thinking of starting a relationship with a G.I....... it can be a bumpy road ...bring pleanty of mental cushions with you and try it....
2006-08-13 17:33:24
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answered by Anonymous
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Military girlfriend is just like any other ordinary girl but in uniform. The same treatment except that the relationship is under the presence of a gun. Anyway, love respects no boundaries. Being a soldier is just another factor but love is all that matters.
2006-08-13 16:54:55
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answered by FRAGINAL, JTM 7
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It is very hard to be a Military Girlfriend, But you do learn to adapt to it. My Marine isn't deployed, but stationed all the way in California, I haven't talked to him in almost a month, You will miss him, But I try to do things to keep my mind off him, It never really works, But sometimes it helps. And if you love him enough, the time away from him will only make your relationship stronger, & if he does choose to join.. You have to be prepared for him to change, there may be a time where he tries to push you away, but its only to help him cope, Don't take it personal, stick with him through whatever because no matter what they say, they need you.. You have to be strong for him.. There are times where you may think that you cant do it, but keep your head up & believe in what you have, and know that you will see him, & he misses you just as much as you miss him.. I feel that I joined the Marines along with my boyfriend.. It only makes you stronger.. Im 18 years old, and he is 20, yeah we are still young, so I have no room to comment on your age.. People are going to say things like.. "Oh you need to let him go, & find someone else" Or things of that sort, just ignore it, because you don't need doubts in your mind, stay focused on what you two know you have.. I never thought I'd be able to do it, but here I am 7 months in.. & yeah I miss him, But you cant dwell on it, dont take any time you do spend with him or that you get to talk to him for granted.. appreciate every moment together.. I guess thats my story & best advice.. I hope it helps.. :)
2016-03-27 00:49:43
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answered by Anonymous
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yes it is. I've been a military wife for years. So I can imagine the girlfriend isn't much better.
Granted it depends on his job in the military. If you dont' have to deal with deployments, tdy's etc... then its like them having a normal job. But if he's infantry, or anything of that nature, They are always gone. Then when they are home you have to get used to them all over again, usually just in time for them to leave again.
Armywife, the toughest job in the military!
2006-08-13 16:58:02
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answered by Chrissy 7
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Very. I broke it off with my girlfriend b/c i new how tough it would be for her. Its nearly impossible. In my experience, either a military man's single, or very very much in love and married.
If you are in an extremely strong relationship it could work.
2006-08-13 16:56:18
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answered by Anonymous
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well yes and no...im engaged to and Infantry man...our realationship has has alot of bumpy patches because of him being gone...but we get through them..for example..his buddy's who are single or just dont care...love to drink and meet new girls..and also his one friend..well ex friend has gona as far as to break us up...so yes and no...it has its rewards..like seeing him in uniform knowing hes yours hes fighting for your freedom.
2006-08-16 08:35:00
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answered by Anonymous
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Probably. I would never want to be one. Good luck.
2006-08-13 16:53:45
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answered by Aussie Chick 5
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