I'm mixed and guys at my school never ask me out. I'm an alert person I think I'm smart and I look like my avatar ,I model,I'v taken quizes and I'm romantic and a awsome kisser! the guys at my school go for the short and chuby!Is there something rong wit me?
2006-08-13 16:42:25 · 39 answers · asked by checkit137m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think i'm snobbish ?I actual try to be the aposite.probobly cause you guys think I exagerated.
2006-08-13 17:02:33 · update #1
Of course not! I used to feel exactly the same. I was always an outcast with guys, even though I used to model, and be in very good shape and all that good stuff. Don't worry, you'll find the right guys. And don't trust quizzes!! They are never right. Kinda like horoscopes. But keep being yourself, be friendly, and the right guy will come!
2006-08-13 16:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by blondie_879 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no nothing wrong your either to fine that all the other guys are scared to ask you and they are insecure so that right there is a turn off for alot of girls meaning bad relationships. The other is that maybe your not there type now that is a little far fetch thats if you are really good looking. So the guys are just missing out and you will find that one guy that has the B A L L S to ask you out. For me back in school I asked out all the girls that were hot, got put down but I finally found one that I married and had two wonderful kids. So I guess guys theis days are insecure about themselves. There is nothing to lose but so much to gain if guys would just go out there and be more out going. I mean Come on Guys whats the Deal
2006-08-13 16:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that when a individual concentrates sooo much on what other people think that they fail to be themselves. Don't ever let someone make you feel that you are less of a person. Be confident in who you are as a individual and don't worry about what other people think. Being yourself and being proud of you is more important than anything. Findout what these peoples interests are and you may find that you DO have something in common. Maybe they are in a certain club at school and you could join them. Maybe you can go to some football games, track or anything that you see them doing. Don't be affraid to go up and talk to them. Sometimes something as simple as looking into their eyes everytime you see them and saying hi will show them that you are interested in getting to know them. Also, decide before you see them what you want to say. Say something simple each time like I saw your class project and I really like it or just compliment something they are wearing. You are already suffering so doing nothing isn't helping. Maybe they don't know you are interested and they won't until YOU start showing that you are. Make the first move and don't ever wait for something to happen. Chin up and enjoy life.
2006-08-13 16:49:11 · answer #3 · answered by lovelyandcarefree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a rather quiet person? People generally have two really stupid attitudes about quiet people: 1) they're not too bright, so they have little to say, or 2) they don't talk much, so they must be stuck up. Just be yourself, if you don't draw the attention of one of the people who think as I've stated, then count yourself lucky! Who needs or wants dorks like that! When the right guy comes along, he'll notice you!
Try to be a little more outgoing. Join things at school, like sports teams, the choir, the band, etc., but only if they really interest you, otherwise they'll just be a chore. If you have a good sense of humor use it. People don't feel at ease with you if they think you likewise are not at ease.
2006-08-13 17:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by The Invisible Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you miss is that you are NOT average. You cannot be easily placed and typecast ...
You are also so smart totally beautiful and have a model body and this will intimidate guys.
The missing bit is, you need to also be AVAILABLE.
Pick a guy that you think is a really great (but overlooked guy) who deserves a wonderful girlfriend ... then get to know him better and if he is as nice as you hope for .. ask him out ...
You GO girl, you have it.
2006-08-13 16:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by PlayTOE- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, normally I would laugh at the first comment, but considering I am assuming that you are still in high school I will give you advice. In the real world, the world after high school, guys will be more mature and will go for you trust me, it seems far away but it is not, in the meantime, do you and don't be so caught up in what these losers think.
2006-08-13 16:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by I love money 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No most probably they are intimidated by you , by your description you must be a little snobbish , definitely an unattractive character in a chick , you have to go out with the most ugliest guy in your class ,This will show the fellas that you are definitely the most forgiving persont that ever existed... Or find out that one guy who is completely crazy about you and make his dreams come true by going out with him ,,, All else fails , send me an email , I will go out with ya.... !!
2006-08-13 16:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by OverDose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you. its just like why a lion goes after a hurt antelope instead if a healthy one....it increases the odds of success.
super hot girls are harder to approach. guys think that they have waaaay to much competition to ask the hot girl out, and settle for what they know is available.
If you are as hot as your avatar, i bet there are tons of guys who are attracted to you.
why don't you express interest in a guy at your school. ask some guy out. make sure its someone you are really interested in and would like to spend some time with, cause it hurts guys as much as girls to be dumped.
good luck.
2006-08-13 16:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by god 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you.
Maybe you put off the type of vibe that says I'm better then you, or don't talk to me, or I'm a snob.........etc
And even if you do not intend to, it is possible.
I got told my entire life that I look like a snob........what the heck does that mean? I look like one? Now I could understand it if they said that I acted like one.
But my point is this.......because of everyone's perception of me, they were standoffish and I had to try alittle harder, make it a point to be the one who spoke first, etc.
Maybe that is what you need to do.
2006-08-13 16:50:09 · answer #9 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying, there's plenty of time to meet guys. Since these guys that interest are chubby chasers, R U willing to gain weight? Bet not. Stop worrying over nothing. And I'm sure that ur ethnicity has nothing to do with it.
2006-08-13 16:49:00 · answer #10 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋