i went out with this girl who i was really good friends with about a year ago. after a month, she breaks up with me cuz sh only thought of me as a friend. i still like her, though i tried to forget about the feeling. we're still really good friends. should i still try to go out with her or should i just forget about that thought and stay friends with her, though i still like her?
2006-08-13 16:36:28 · 10 answers · asked by Randomperson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Remain good friends with her, it would be better then loosing her completely and never seeing her again. Maybe she will change her mind later, if not you still have your friendship. Good Luck!
2006-08-13 16:41:09 · answer #1 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to her for a couple of weeks. Let here wonder where you are. She is just keeping you at bay by keeping you a friend. This way, you are still in her life, but she doesn't have to commit anything intimate with you. Let her sweat a little bit. Avoid her at all cost, no matter how bad you got it for this girl. AVOID HER!! Then casualy call her and just ask her whats going on.
2006-08-13 16:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by tonycliftonhere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most friends do like each other but since u just like her at the moment let it be and just dont pressure her into going out with u and then maybe she will want some thing more than just being ur friend. give it time and everything will come into play at the right time
2006-08-13 16:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let her know that you still have feelings for her, but that you understand if she doesn't and still wants to be just friends. Whatever her resoponse is will give you your answer. If she doesnt feel the same, respect that, and be a good friend.
2006-08-13 16:42:58 · answer #4 · answered by ~jenn~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This one is hard-- I've been in this situation B4...
But here:
~If you ask her: she might say no, and also she might not B your friend, cuse' she could get freaked out
~ If you don't: you still hav a friend, but you'll never kno if she likes U more than a friend...
It's a 50-50 chance-- just do what you want, cuse' sometimes, they say yes... :)
2006-08-13 16:41:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your last sentence makes the Mose sense.
2006-08-13 16:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends. I dated a friend and it was a huge mistake. We are not close anymore.
2006-08-13 16:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by oceanjen2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
asking her out again, might alienate her...so just take it easy...if she likes you more than a friend, she will let you know...but you can always ask her...but that is risking your friendship with her
2006-08-13 16:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try again. what have you got to lose? Its better to risk being rejected than not trying at all.
2006-08-13 16:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else.
2006-08-13 16:39:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋