I feel like crap right now. I feel like throwing up and feeling dizzy coz I just found out about my bf... I don't know what to do...
I'm trying not to cry
2006-08-13 16:33:28 · 9 answers · asked by dewdropinn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It hurts cuse' you know that they don't really love you, and that your trust is broken...
I'm sorry... when U feel better, get a lil' revenge-- THAT WILL MAKE YOU FEEL MUCH BETTER- trust me
2006-08-13 16:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel my ex told me that he was seeing somebody else and he thought they would be better for him cause I couldn't get along with his mother and she was a friend of hers I was living with him at the time and he told me to leave! I was very hurt I had been living with him for 3yrs. On top of all that about a week after it all happened i found out I was pregnant!!!! yeah i know sucks really bad but he drives buy my house all the time with that girl showing off i didn't do anything to him so why is he being so hurtful to me Now i don't know if i should even tell hI'm im pregnant or not I want to jus to make him feel bad but then I don't even think he deserves to know
2006-08-13 23:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by Lee-Lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the betrayal that feels like a knife. At least, that's how it feels to me. I was sick at my stomach for days. I even had chest pains so bad that I went to the cardiologist to make sure that it wasn't heart trouble. (I guess I am having heart trouble, just not the kind you need a cardiologist for.)
Recently, someone asked me how I felt when I discovered that wife was cheating. Here's what I wrote.
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There were times when I felt like a sword was through my chest from heart to spine. Sometimes I started to cry without provocation. I had trouble sleeping. I plotted her death in at least a dozen different ways.
The most awful aspect of it all is that there was no one to talk to. I couldn't talk to her about how I felt about her cheating because she was no longer a trusted partner. I couldn't talk to my parents, parents, brothers, or friends because it was just too shaming.
The loneliness was so thick, heavy, and cloying that it felt like being buried under a pile of cold dirt.
Lastly, there's the finality of knowing that nothing will ever be the same again.
2006-08-13 23:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by Otis F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he have crushed your heart and caused you to have low self-esteem. Seems like you fell in love and he didn't. Someone left the gate open and good things went bad. The best thing to do is dump the dude and move on to the next level, all
guys are not cheaters.
2006-08-13 23:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cry. It hurts because a person you put all your love and trust into has just thrown it back in your face to get their jollies, and has betrayed you. It's ok to cry.
2006-08-13 23:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by Jadeba12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men cheat...find a different man. My only suggestion is don't look in the trash dump to find a treasure
2006-08-13 23:38:36 · answer #6 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cry, let it out, get angry, you have a right to. If it were me, it would be over but you might want to think it over, let your head clear and see if you can forgive him.
2006-08-13 23:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by Britt Britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cry anyway, its a good release, and you'll feel better after you get it all out
2006-08-13 23:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
congratulations, you are the 438 millionth dumb girl who gave herself away before marriage.
2006-08-13 23:37:24 · answer #9 · answered by erk m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋