Me and my gf been together for 3 years and everytime i want to have sex with her it always seems like a hassle. The only time it goes smooth is when she wants to do it and if im not in the mood when she wants it she start gettin mad at me. Me, i can have sex anytime day or night im always ready and i just tell her i dont want to do it to try to make her feel like i do, but it doesnt work. So ladies any suggestions?
2006-08-13 16:29:18 · 17 answers · asked by John 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she's to tired go find someone whio isn't
2006-08-13 16:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by luv2bawitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you aren't approaching her correctly.
Some girls need to be romanced before having sex. (Even after 3 years.)
Guys telling them "I'm horny" can be a huge turn off.
Make her dinner, or give her a really good body massage and work her into the mood.
There are a lot of things you can do to try without just saying, "Hey I want sex." That can really be a turn off for some women.
2006-08-13 16:39:23 · answer #2 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have really pissed her off cause that is what happened in my relationship. He did some really ****** up **** and now I don't even bother. Maybe that is how she feels. You should talk it out cause if you aren't meeting her needs on an emotional level, you aren't going to get any, not from her anyway.
2006-08-13 16:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down n talk 2 her about it, maybe theres a reason she doesn't want it??? tewll her how u feel... i had this happen to me, cuz i never seemed to want to have sex, and i didn't know it was botherin my b/f so much... he didn't tell me about it and instead he cheated on me, and now it's all over.. so u should talk 2 her about it 4 sure!!! if she doesn't understand and try to do sumfin about it.. maybe u need a new g/f???
2006-08-13 16:35:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I lost interest in sex with my husband thats when I knew our marriage was over, we got a divorce a few months later.
2006-08-13 16:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by girlfromflorida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you talk to her about this. Just basically tell her what you wrote here. What have you got to lose by having an open, honest discussion?
2006-08-13 16:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear a condom and don't get her pregnant. If you get her pregnant, marry her before your baby is born so it'll be born legitimately.
If you don't agree with any of the above. . . no sex!
2006-08-13 16:34:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she's making such a big deal out of it. It's supposed to be fun, damnit lol
2006-08-13 16:34:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jadeba12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no sex untill shes ready.... if she declines you-get her in the mood.
2006-08-13 16:36:57 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really want to have sex with her and if u r really pressed then when she want to do it then go on ahead and f+uck her!
2006-08-13 16:36:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex
2006-08-13 16:32:19 · answer #11 · answered by lemonada dada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋