I hate her!?

Question

ok,my mom has to be the hardest on me!and i want to stand up to her but I know what she's capapble ofand so i want to tell her im sick and tired of her because i always have to get up a 6;30 in the morning to hold my borther then do chorres all day ythen do the same thing the next day and i have 9 borther's and sister that all live in the house and aern't gone in the morning and on my birthdays the first birthday she ruined was by hitting me with a belt because my room wasn't clean and canceled my party
and this year i haad a bunch of friends over and we were playing this game and my nieghbors dont nok on the fence or nothing they just barge in and they said they wanted on the trampoline but i already had 6 friend on it so i said i dont think that would be a good idea and then they came back again when we were playing a game they didnt know we were playing a game and they started making fun of my friends and i told them to get off my property they told my mom and I had to say sorry

Answer 1

How old are you? You seem to be pretty mature. If you're close to 18, and have a job, move out.
As far as the belt goes, tell someone about that. Tell a trusted adult family member, or your school conselor.
NO ONE deserves that!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can't stress that enough.
Please please please tell someone about that. You'll be glad you did. :)

Answer 2

Whether she will admit it or not, I know , that most moms won't make their child do something they know they are not capable of. So when she has you do all that stuff it's probably because she believes you can do it, maybe your just the oldest, but it seems like she must also go through hell having 10 kids. So just imagine being in her shoes, and try to let your mom know that you'll always help her the best you can.
But I agree with you though she is pretty mean.


"LOVE CAN CAST OUT ANGER,FEAR,AND HATRED."
-Thomas D.C. Moore

Answer 3

you dont really hate her. you just feel angry with her because you dont think she listens to you. and you should tell her that... and you should tell her that it hurts your feelings that she doesnt listen to you. she might get upset at first... but she will still think about what you said, though she may not tell you that..
mothers sometimes get so wrapped up in the day to day activities that we forget how much our children need our attention and praise...
i had to go to a counselor when i was 12 because my mom was at her wits end with me and all it turned out to be was i was acting out because i was the oldest girl of 5 kids and i had way too much responsibility and not enough attention....
they actually ended up teaching my mom how to deal with me in a more positive manner and meet my needs and it worked... my mom and i got close..(took about a year) and remained close until she passed away this year... (i am now 42...so we had a great 30 years together before she passed away)
talk to your mom...if you dont think that works then talk to your guidence counselor at school...
and remember... you have to meet your mom halfway.... meaning its not all her... and you have to be willing to find out how you contribute to your own misery and fix that... and your mom will do the same, and you'll be surprised at how much better you get along....

Answer 4

thats a hard one because if you have other siblings then the pressure shouldnt be just on you but maybe in a way your mom is trying to tell you that yur capable of alot more then what yur siblings are and that why shes hard on you and shes scared of you messing that up so shes giving you the responsibilty of it now just come out and say mom we need to talk and tell her your feelings w/o getting angry good luck

Answer 5

When I was younger, I hated my mother too. I thought she preferred my sister over me. They day my dad called and said my mom died of a sudden heart attack, all the hatred vanished. I can't even remember hating her now. You will change as you get older. It usually happens when you have your first child, if not before. Relax, you're normal.

Answer 6

That is so Unfair!Your mom probley thinks your the hatest one in the family to her.Does she have anybody work too?I know how u feel.Once we were going to a parade in my family n they left out the car with out letting me know.So im like completly mad.Im still in the car waiting for 20 minutesThen my sister comes on and gets me.OMG i felt like i was invisible.

Answer 7

please don't!! it seems that life is hard for her, and she's probably working very hard for you all to have a better life. yes she shouldn't take out her frustrations on you. let all these things be a motivation for you to do well at school, etcso you become a successful adult. even if she doesn't work very hard or she "hates" you, still use these things to motivate yourself, so you don't end up like her, channel your "hate" into productivity

Answer 8

are you taken care of with a roof over your head? ..sounds like ur mom is at her wits end with that big family in the house. i would count my blessings and deal with it theres alot worse things in life trust me.

Answer 9

okay, and what is your question? Also, how about using some periods. I think you just wrote the worlds longest sentence.

Answer 10

Please rewrite this question with better grammer and ask a definate question. Also, if the main point of this question was to vent, then there are many decent blogging sites such as:
blogger.com
blogstream.com
xanga.com
livejournal.com
Happy blogging!!!

Answer 11

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