shes never there because she doesnt have cable or a computer. Ive only been able to get a hold of her once and that was last week. We talked for an hour and we got along great. She has my cell. people that live there like her cousins and sisters have answered the phone and said they would tell her I called. Is it possible that she hasnt heard that I called because they forgot to tell her? I call once a day. Is that 2 much? I REALLY wanna talk to her. What do I do w/o lookin desperate?
2006-08-13
16:23:08
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She lives far away. so I cant just go over there. What about if it is true that she hasnt heard that I called?
2006-08-13
16:49:10 ·
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The thing is, you aren't, so you shouldn't feel insecure about calling a few times in a day. 3 times a day in spans of 2 hours or more is a solid way to try and get in contact with her. I've been through the same thing before, 'cept it was more like phone tag.
2006-08-13 16:26:36
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answered by elementcontroller 2
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Once a day is WAY too much. You've probably already overdone it and it might not be salvagable. Wait a week then give one last call. If that doesn't pan out well, then forget about the whole thing and move on.
The most important part of this "game" is to make sure the girl thinks that you like her less than she likes you! Follow that rule and you should be golden.
2006-08-13 16:27:15
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answered by mgrazus 2
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Oh wow.. once a day or twice a day calling.. that is about 2 too many. She is getting the message and she does NOT want to talk to you.. It may hurt you to believe that but you must accept that fact. She is probably not worthy of you anyway and you should NOT be wasting your time on her.. I can tell without having known her that she is not worth it and you would be MUCH better off calling another gal.
2006-08-13 16:28:23
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answered by Anonymous
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For one thing your getting desperate. The other is you talked only once and she does not call back, then she is not interested so get over it and move on man, because I can tell you this her family knows that you called and she knows it too. MOVE THE F U C K ON
2006-08-13 16:27:22
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answered by Anonymous
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yeah its possible they might have forgot to inform her.. dont think u sound too desperate if u call her daily but since shes never around call her every other day might be better. or u guys should make a time schedule where each is like ill be home from this time to this time and u can call me then..dunno that might work?
2006-08-13 16:26:52
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answered by cotton_candy8448 1
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i think a call a day sounds reasonable. but if she hasn't called back in a week, i'd say stop, and if she's as interested as you are, she'll probably call you.
it is very possible that they haven't told her that you called. next time you talk to her, mention that you've called her several times and were told she'd get the message. ask if she did. if not, maybe you should ask her to call you instead, or ask what times she is usually home so you know when to call
good luck
2006-08-13 16:28:01
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answered by al 3
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POSSIBLE that she DID NOT GET the message that you called. MAYBE you got your message but for reasons known only to her, she DIDN'T want to return call. Maybe she lost your number? Maybe she's not interested? Last resort would be to meet her in person, accidentally bumping into her along her daily route/house area and strike up a conversation and judge for yourself should you continue your interests or not. Good luck, my friend.
2006-08-13 16:31:04
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answered by TK 4
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she is giving you the cold shoulder this is coming from a girl. She was nice cuz she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. It doesn't mean that she doesn't like you just that she would rather be friends. so just stop calling her soon she will feel guilty and call you then have a friendly short conversation. She just doesn't want to go to fast.
2006-08-13 16:28:26
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answered by Beverly 2
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Well, I believe you'll get her attention by NOT calling. Give her some space and time. If she's interested....then she will call you. If not....then keep looking doll.
2006-08-13 16:30:02
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answered by xxx 4
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dude, you're already looking pretty desperate. Don't call more that twice a week.
2006-08-13 16:28:37
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answered by Anonymous
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