Okay, I can defiently answer this question easy. I had good parents who taught me all the right things, yet I did some really terrible stuff. I mean really, really, really bad things.
First off, when I was 13 I started smoking. That was around the time when my father died however. I was going through a lot and I decided to be a rebel. I would never have started smoking if I knew the concequences. I mean, I knew the bad things could happen but I didn't, you know. Do you know how someone dies of lung cancer? First the tumer kills one of your lungs and leaves a bunch of fluids. After the first lung goes the second one goes next. You'll be on your death bed when you other lung gives out. It'll be full of fluids, then the fluids will travel up your lungs and you'll litterally dround in that fluid. You'll girgle for a second, then die. And you'll be awake during the entire ordeal.
See, if someone told me that when I was 13 years old, I defiently wouldn't have kept going.
Do you see what I am trying to say here? You've got to explain the concequences to their actions in a very loud way, descriptive too.
2006-08-13 17:15:08
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answered by yayachicky 2
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Hormones and alot of them changing.Some kids are leaders and some are followers.Followers end up doing really stupid stuff and realize it right after it happens. Leaders really do not care one way or another as long as they get what they want.Unless you teach you child to be a Leader in a different way like helping others.All children will try to spread their wings and fly just keep clipping the wings until they are mature enough to handle the real world.And Pray every night that they are kept safe and healthy.
2006-08-13 16:43:28
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answered by J J 2
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and who are their role modles? and how do you know they are good ones? let me ask you some thing, do you yourself go to church? do your kids go to church? where is God in your life? what about your familys lives? if your kids are not getting God fearing role models then they will have a higher chance of getting into trouble. i am not saying that your kids would be perfect if they had Godly role models but they would probably be a lot better than they are now. i am 16 and i grew up in and around church. and i still had probems with my parents, but when i started listening to what my pastor and counclers were telling me, my life at home got a lot better, my parents and i almost never fight any morei almost never get into trouble any more. think about this.
2006-08-13 16:36:41
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answered by Anonymous
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look, I completely accept as true with you, there are some people who've mind-blowing quantities of followers who do not precisely deserve it, yet heavily. the respond on your 'considerable question'? by using fact they weren't interior the superb suited place on the superb suited time. i've got faith that's a lot a factor of being properly-enjoyed. additionally, those celebrities you point out are little ones, who've temper swings, sexual urges, and aside from all that, have been (commonly) overexposed to grownup existence. i think of there's a lot of stress on tween stars to adapt their song/television shows and so on. to a youthful purpose audience (8-12) as a replace of who they desire to attraction to, human beings of their very very own age (15+). yet another unhappy reality? that's extremely not hardship-free to get properly-enjoyed being the 'good guy'. you may get a sprint exposure getting a cat out of a tree, or some extra, i don't know, donating 0.5 your income to an outstanding reason, yet once you get found out doing some thing undesirable (i don't know, drugs, alcohol, adultery, take your %., that's in simple terms an occasion) you will get front website. Get what I propose? Sorry, i've got form of been rambling on regardless of pops into my head. So yeah. those are my ideas , in no specific order. Ashton
2016-10-02 01:20:35
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answered by ? 4
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They are young and ignorant. They test your love. I did it, even though I didn't know exactly what I was doing at the time. But they grow up. I did. I can now look back on everything and eventhough I still don't really know why I did everything, I can have a mature and educated guess as to why
2006-08-13 16:40:51
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answered by chica123 3
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I guess its a right of passage. A walk on the dangerous side. They feel like they are invincible. They say the mind, is not fully developed until you reach 23 or 24 years old. So maturity would be a major factor. Peer pressure, to be cool, to fit in. The craziest kids in college usually came from the strictest households. To bad in some cases it leads to their destruction. Blame it all on human nature...
2006-08-13 16:32:52
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answered by 345Grasshopper 5
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We live in dificult times, hard to deal with. You've heard "the devil made me do it"? It's tough out there between peer pressure and marketing pressures from the media they have a lot to deal with and sometimes it's easier to just be defiant to rebel against it all. They might have excellent role models but they are still their own person and they still have free will and lack the experience to know the right way to deal with anxieties of life
2006-08-13 16:31:17
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answered by Valerie 2
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Curiosity
2006-08-13 16:31:42
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answered by ? 3
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Teenagers are impulsive...They are trying to grow up and want to make their own decisons. Unfortunately, many of the decisions that they make are due to lapse of judgement, peer pressure, anger, or impulsiveness. When they make a decision that they know is wrong they are often just trying to form their own identity which is often at the cost of their parents.
2006-08-13 16:30:19
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answered by juicybluesky 2
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because their teenagers , not really kids and not really adults , they don't know where their role is yet and so they act out and by acting out and getting crap for it they learn their role in the world , basically life is a learning process and its part of life
2006-08-13 16:37:51
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answered by jojo 6
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