So I made a huge mistake of meeting up with my ex-gf tonight. She broke up with me and is seeing some other guy but she keeps saying and making it seem like she wants things to workout with me. She asked to meet up and I did. Things did not go so well. I told her I felt like she was a waste of time because she had put me through all this hell and she took exception to that and then we got into a fight and left haha. This is so ridiculous I feel like I am back to square one of feeling like crap. How can I feel better about this situation? My head is a mess lately.
2006-08-13 16:15:49 · 12 answers · asked by picklesmoocher 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah it was 2 years and I have been having trouble getting over her.
2006-08-13 16:22:05 · update #1
Take my advice this is a trap, and even if you must gnaw one of your legs off, you must escape! If you don't, and you keep going back for more, the punishment is only going to continue, do what you must, but I think the best idea may be to tell you "ex":
"Thanks, but no thanks!" the next time she asks you to see her.
Tell her that it's not good for you anymore, maybe you won't have to gnaw another foot off to escape, she likes seeing you in misery, or didn't you notice?
Good luck, old habits are sometimes very hard to break! She broke up with you, she has hurt you countless times, and seems to have a taste for blood, even us rats know when to cut our losses! Time to learn to love yourself again, you are worth more than someone who only wants you to suffer!
2006-08-13 16:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by Clover_McGee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, even though i never really had an EX before ( i still am in total love with my current boyfriend even tho my parents have always been total hatred towards him), i will tell you a few things. First of all, i think you should NEVER get back with an EX that put you through total hell. Secondly, please think about what she did and what made you go back and see her. FInally, if she would still treat u like she did during "step one" then totally forget about her. There will be a TON of other girls out there for you and you should totally get the chance and step into the daylight and just be free. ya kno what i mean? just incase you dont...just be free and jsut go out and date as many girls as you can. then you will have the option to choose.
2006-08-13 23:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by aznxbabi88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on if it is meant to be then so be it. She is playing games with you and stringing you along. She is trying to keep you around in case things dont work out with her and the new guy. You need to just move on buddy. Time will help you.
2006-08-13 23:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe calling her a waste of time was not the best idea, but at least you told her how you felt about the situation. And hopefully she'll listen to that and quit playing games.
2006-08-13 23:19:57 · answer #4 · answered by Pask 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honestly you just need to leave her alone. If she really wanted to be with you and make things work why would she have moved on with her life? Take my advice and do the same. Women can be tricky sometimes man. Dont fall for it. Your better than that... Move on with your life and have fun doing it...
2006-08-13 23:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by Candy Girl's Man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that don't sound to good man, did she seem like she wants to be with you again. if so then try the "calm" route. If not move on and don't talk. it's hard. but you'll really tear yourself up trying to make sense of it all.
2006-08-13 23:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by ChangedMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go meet up wit a new chic and try 2 forget about her
your lord and master
zach
2006-08-13 23:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by zach R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say go out and party and just forget about her and meet some girls or soemthing...
2006-08-13 23:18:58 · answer #8 · answered by Curious_Camo_Jess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
loose her she is bad news and is only getting off on your pain and confusion
2006-08-13 23:22:10 · answer #9 · answered by guinness breath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get over it
she's not worth it
2006-08-13 23:19:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋