2006-08-13 16:15:23 · 19 answers · asked by billyboysblue 3 in Health ➔ Other - Health
There's nothing wrong with either one dude... just do what you want and what makes you feel good. If you like guys, then that's awesome. If not, that's awesome too. Accept yourself for who you are. Don't let people talk down to you.
2006-08-13 16:20:24 · answer #1 · answered by Harsh Noise Wall 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can see a therapist who is really knowledgeable about treatment. There are not very many. If you are Christian or Catholic there are support groups, and they know who are good therapists:
for Catholics - http://www.pregnancy.org/article.php?sid=1236
for Protestants - http://www.exodus.to/default.asp
These two groups are national and international, and have conferences every year. The local groups are support groups, and they are familiar with the resources that are available.
Total change is not always possible, though some change is usually possible. Some of the most important changes are of childhood wounds, and in the ability to form real healthy relationships with the same sex and with the opposite sex.
2006-08-13 23:26:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find a good therapist in your area. Maybe you are dealing with some underlying issues that need to be resolved. Second, I have nothing against gay people, but men and women are suppose to be together. But, you can not help who you love or are attracted to. I would start with the counseling, maybe find some books at the bookstore to help you. Good luck.
2006-08-13 23:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by Maggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find yourself a nice girl. You were never really gay if you want to be straight. You were just in the experimental stage.
2006-08-13 23:22:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to Exodus international throughout the US or places like Second Mile Ministries in Toronto. They have the resources to help.
2006-08-14 00:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by Buzz s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though, I (as well as science) can pretty much guarantee you that you won't be able to completely change your sexuality, it's your life and your choice. You may want to contact a Christian fundamentalist church in your area, they will most likely be able to provide you information on "reparative therapy" services. I wish you the best of luck, love.
2006-08-13 23:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as far as all the people who say "who cares what anyone else thinks?", don't be foolish. YOU have to live around the people you love for the rest of your life, OR live a life running from people to new groups of people over and over. "Do what is right and God will honor you." thats what Jesus says.....
and in response to 'jec' --- Luke 9:23---do you believe jec or Jesus?
2006-08-13 23:26:50 · answer #7 · answered by Ken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want to be straight? or does everyone else want you to be straight? Maybe see someone for some help
2006-08-13 23:20:19 · answer #8 · answered by phe_03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your own direction, not what your neighbour is telling you. you are obviously confused so take it very slow follow your heart and be a good person, you really dont want to be gay.
2006-08-13 23:19:33 · answer #9 · answered by peregrine003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the real question should be "why would i want to eliminate this habit?" you're denying yourself and that's NEVER good... if you find an answer, you might resolve the issue, besides... have you had sex with men? if you haven't had it yet, then you should try, you could also find you're not that gay
2006-08-13 23:23:59 · answer #10 · answered by jec 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋