The last couple of girls I've dated I wasnt able to *** most of the time during sex. What is the problem! I heard maybe it could be because of jacking off multiple times a day. normally 2 times, but there are days I dont do it at all. I cant go with out sex or jacking off.
2006-08-13 16:08:48 · 13 answers · asked by jamie 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Im not GAY!!! I think stress has alot to do with it. I own my own business and I get stressed alot. I get tired and they normally cant go as long as i can. they get off alot and then start getting raw and dry!
2006-08-13 16:31:24 · update #1
This is a real problem in a minority of men. It is call "delayed ejaculation" or "anejaculation."
It can be due to a number of factors: 1. fear of intimacy, 2. decreased desire, 3. stress, 4. fatigue, 5. desensitization of sexual stimuli becuase you have been doing a lot of freaky things and now nothing excites you....
I have heard that working with a sexual therapist actually has a very high success rate in overcoming this problem.
Good luck, and if your GF loves you, she will understand and be supportive of you.
P.s. this is NO way (in and of itself) means that youre gay.
2006-08-13 16:17:11 · answer #1 · answered by realgirl768553 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a couple of things quickly come to mind:
1. are u just not having an orgasm, or not able to get erect?
2. If u r erect, I'd ask how long did u have sex before concluding
u were not going to orgasm.
3. I also wonder, if you're sure of sexual gender preference.
4. Are your partners people u care for ? If you're w/o feelings
for these women, could easily not want to orgasm.
5. Although there are medical conditions that could cause your
problem, I'm fairly sure they are not involved. I say this since
you have said it is not a continuous situation.
However, if you can not ejaculate at all---then i would see a
Board certified Urologist immediately .
2006-08-13 16:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by m5joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you on any medicines, that have a side effect like this? Some anti-depression anti-anxiety medicines do have these side effects, such as lexapro. High blood pressure and diabetes medicines can cause this too. Maybe, it is mental, If you are aware of this problem, you may get frustrated, then it would be harder to get off. Try thinking of a fantasy, while in the process, maybe that will help. Good Luck...
2006-08-13 16:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by 345Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a freakin pervo!!!
Not really, well yea ya are but its ok. Sounds like to me and My experience with that sort of thing that you have issues, like stress something deeper than what girl your dating , probibly nothing to do w/ sex either.I think your trying to releave stress w/ getting off several times a week. Yea sometimes it releaves tention and stress but you can have too much of a good thing,you need to find some other way to relieve stress by yourself and save the sex for your girl.....
2006-08-13 16:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by wrokgoddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not because of jacking off all the time. Maybe your thinking about it to much, maybe its the girls...maybe your gay. Theres alot of things it could possably be.. but jacking off all the time is not one of them... men produce sperm 24/7
2006-08-13 16:16:01 · answer #5 · answered by Wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I'm not a guy but would like to give you my suggestions anyhow. It might be because you are uptight and placing to much emphasis on the orgasm. Or it could be that you need to have more foreplay and time to get fully aroused. Just slow down. Be patient and have fun! Good luck to you!
2006-08-13 17:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by Blondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be worse. You could be like many woman who have never had the experiance.
Try waiting for Love, Pandora
2006-08-13 16:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by Pandora R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cut down on the masturbation, you would enjoy sex a lot more.and if you dont stop you will go to hell.
2006-08-13 16:15:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
cant is a strong word.. try not jackin off for a week and im sure you will get off.its a control thing
2006-08-13 16:11:57 · answer #9 · answered by aoinerekai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is normal for YOU ...most men have the same problem or *** too fast ... some dont get arroused as fast as others and some do real fast .......... its how you handle this is the problem....
2006-08-17 15:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by the1andonybump 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋