one of my boyfriend's ex's asked me how my relationship was with mike(my boyfriend).
why should it even matter to her how things are?
they are fantastic...and for him being away in the army they couldn't be better.
is it cuz she's jelous how well our relationship is working out with him being gone?
she's the one who ended it with him....and this isn't the first time she asked how things were going...she asks like once a month
2006-08-13 16:05:57 · 22 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its my boyfriend's not mine....wow...
2006-08-13 16:11:52 · update #1
and i forgot to mention....he doesn't talk to any of his ex's anymore...once they break up he won't talk to you if you went out with him
2006-08-13 16:18:30 · update #2
she left him and now shes starting to see it was a mistake, she wants to take your place. kinda jealous. be careful she dosen't try to sabotage you too. God bless.
2006-08-13 16:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by ChangedMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch out for her. It sounds like she's still digging on your man. Maybe she hopes you'll break up so she can move back in. Or it could be she was really hurt by the break-up and she doesn't want him to be happy. EVER.
Bitterness can do that. Some women just don't know how to let things go. In any case it smells like trouble. I wouldn't trust her any farther then I could throw her.
Whenever she asked you how things are going with your boyfriend tell her It's going great. Say no more and no less. I suggest, being courteous but not too friendly.
2006-08-13 16:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by genuine1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, either she wants to move in when things are bad between you and your b/f OR maybe she has a reason why she broke up with him and hasn't told anyone (or the truth about the reason she broke up with him). Maybe she wants to make sure you aren't being treated badly too. Something might have happened to her and that's why she ended the relationship. Could you ask her why she is so interested without having her spaz out on you? Just ask her casually, like "They're good, why do you ask?" and see what she says. Body language says a lot.
My fiance had the "pleasure" (ha ha) of meeting my ex. My ex actually had the nerve to tell my fiance "Take care of her". My fiance and I talked about it and we both were wondering what he would care seeing as how he was the one who treated me badly. Some things just don't make sense.
Good luck.
2006-08-13 16:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by Elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She jeaolus of u and the good relationship u and bf have. She wants to see if the relationship will go wrong so she can go in on him to see if she can get back wit him because she still loves him, but their is still a possibility that she wants to make sure u two r alright wit him bein in the army and all. If u want to know the facts then ask her why she keeps askin u how ur relationship wit ur bf is goin. Somehow in a nice way tell her to stop askin that question.
2006-08-13 16:17:27 · answer #4 · answered by BabyGirl142 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably just trying to be nice and trying to seem non-threatening. If you two are in contact often, it's probably an awkward situation for her, so she wants to try and let you know she's happy that you and Mike are together. Either that, or something very bad happened in the relationship she had with him, and she is trying to work up to telling you. Women try to take care of each other most of the time, it's the "universal sisterhood" thing.
2006-08-13 16:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is most likely envious that he is happy with somebody else now, but I wouldn't want to jump to conclusions. Maybe she feels like something is unresolved with her, and she thinks that asking you will do something.
Anyhow, it doesn't really matter. What matters is what you think, and if her nosiness bothers you, politely tell her that you don't want to go into detail about it with her. Just tell her things are good, and keep it short. The less a third party is involved in a relationship, the better.
2006-08-13 16:13:18 · answer #6 · answered by Bondy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id be like "why do you want him back"? Sounds like she realizes she made a big mistake or cant understand how they couldnt make it work. Id let her know its time for her to mind her business..
2006-08-13 16:10:36 · answer #7 · answered by cvegas229 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't think that maybe she's happy for him? It's called compersion: the happiness felt when you see someone you love finding love with someone else. She's just happy her ex has moved on and that he is happy with you.
2006-08-13 16:10:14 · answer #8 · answered by Not done with love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is jealous. Even if he didn't want to be with u men still don't want to see u with someone else.
2006-08-13 16:11:38 · answer #9 · answered by prettyface 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she wants to know when things are going bad so she can get herself in there. watch out for those boyfriend stealing girls
2006-08-13 16:10:08 · answer #10 · answered by Liliac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋