a year ago i went out with ths girl who i was really good friends with for about a month, and we ended up breaking up cuz she just thought of me as a friend. still, i really liked this girl and i took it kinda hard. so a month later one of my best friends decides he's interested in her and they start dating. at this time, i still wasn't really over this girl, and this really only made it worse. i never said anything to my friend about it cuz i didn't want to screw smething up for him if he really liked her(and as it turns out, she ended up really liking him). they broke up after about a month because most people thought of this guy as an *** and they gave this girl a lot of crap about going out with him, and she couldn't take it anymore. now recently they got back together to give it another shot. this entire time, i never really stopped liking this girl, though she always thought of me as a friend. now i feel jealous of my friend and i feel like an *** about it, is all this normal?
2006-08-13 16:05:09 · 2 answers · asked by Randomperson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES. My best friend dated a guy that I was TOTALLY crushing on. She just did it to be a ***** because we were in an argument. But it turned out that he really liked her. I wanted to kill her! But i still felt SOOO bad cause this girl was like my sister. Anyways. The guy and me were "just friends" and he made that VERY clear to me. Three years later he called "just to talk" and admitted that he had liked me after they broke up but he knew that I wasn't going to fall for him again. So I've been there. It SUCKS soooooo much. I felt bad because she betrayed me by going out with him. I was upset that he liked her and not me. I was mad that I coudlnt' break them up because she was my best friend. I was completely lost as to what to do... Not a fun situation to be in. Try moving on. That's the only thing that got me through that situation. I distracted myself with other things, distanced myself from my best friend and the guy.. Good luck. Hang in there!!!!
2006-08-13 18:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes absolutely normal
2006-08-13 23:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by smile4mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋