i found myself watching the news as i saw it a report that he had been shot in the head and killed.
i couldn't claim i was his girlfriend beacuse our relationship was secret. i felt so helpless after all i put into the relationship and i was left with nothing. i had never been introduced to his family . i didn't know what to say to his family at the funeral. i introduced myself as his friend.
2006-08-13 16:02:57 · 37 answers · asked by s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats messed up
2006-08-13 16:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by Jerry's cowgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with a few of the answers I read. This dream is telling u something, u may have doubts because he's keeping u a secret from family. U feel helpless because he hasn't introduce you to his family and may be deep down u resent him for not telling others about u that u dreamt about him being shot,.
Who was the shooter in the dream?( may be the shooter was u)and what u really couldn't claim was that in the dream not only to family but to yourself was that may be u were the shooter.
U said u put a lot in the relationship and was left with nothing, while in the dream u took control and force when u went to the funeral and introduce yourself to the family.
2006-08-13 17:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams don't mean anything besides inner fear, or the opposite. Guess what? People don't dream in metaphors, despite popular belief. Usually, when your dream is bad, it's just your own inner fear. And when a dream is good? You guessed it. It's got a lot to do with love, or happiness or something. Remember - your dreams are still your imagination, so you created the thoughts. They're not metaphors, so don't worry about it.
2006-08-13 16:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by Harsh Noise Wall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this means inside u want this relationship 2 be more than what it is and so u have bad dreams about it so if u want them to go away sit down and tell him ur tired of the relationship being secret dont worry ur boyfreind probally wont be shot its just a dream
2006-08-13 16:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by lilb491 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have guilt conscience. because your relationship is secret and that being shot shows that you are in a guilty feelings and do not want to let your family know. Your boy friend being shot symbolized not belonging to the family
2006-08-14 00:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A shot to the head is symbolic of communication. You want to communicate to your boyfriend that he should not keep your relationship secret? His death is a symbol for what will happen to your relationship if he doesn't try to make it work by understanding your viewpoint.
2006-08-13 16:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by noir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This dream indicates your fear of losing something you cherish and getting nothing out of the relationship. So, the threat of your lover getting killed is the fear of losing not only him but losing the right to grieve properly.
2006-08-13 16:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the old people tell me if you dream in the family then it's a outside family member that will die if outside of the family then it's inside that will die.
2006-08-13 16:08:40 · answer #8 · answered by b2slim4yall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being shot in a dream can also indicate the dreamer is living a self-destructive life or doing self-destructive things. Pray ..... God can and will help.
2006-08-13 16:09:25 · answer #9 · answered by know_it_all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it means that the relationship shouldn't be a secret anymore. because anything could happen and you don't want to just say "i was a friend". because you're his girlfriend... more than a friend
2006-08-13 16:08:46 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what this means but if I were you I would do every thing in my power to change the things tha happened in the dream.
2006-08-13 16:07:51 · answer #11 · answered by Beverly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋