My mom and I always fight what should i do?

Question

Ok we like always fight almost everyday it drive's me nuts and we like get in huge fights and i do try to talk to her about it but it doesn't really work and the only place that i'm happy at is where my sister live's with her dad cuz we all get along there but my mom never come's thank god but when i am with my mom at the house i always feel depressed or really sad like i need to cry sad but when i feel like that i call my sister but she really doesn't help but when i was on her myspace she put this blog on there about my mom and I and she put at the bottom "not mentioning i'm seriously gonna consider adopting my little sister when i turn 18" and thats like this november anyways i'm starting school 2morrow and i hope ppl don't put me as the depressed girl anyways if you want to visit my sister's webpage its www.myspace.com/lovetherose anyways bye!!!

Answer 1

Bummer. I try to just reflect back what people say when they behave like that. Try to put in words what she is saying. Don't add in your opinion. Just try to reflect back what she is saying. It's hard to bite your tongue sometimes but If you get her to feel like she is being understood then it should help to make things more civil. Take a couple of deep breaths and slowly exhale. You seem rather upset. This to will pass. Best of luck to you.

Answer 2

You and your mom need to be reminded how lucky you are to have each other. Try to talk with your mom, explain to her exactly how you're feeling. Listen to her as well. Maybe you guys will be able to understand each other better. My mom passed away when I was 20 (I'm 24 now), and whenever we had our issues, we always made sure we talked through them, even if we had just finished screaming at each other. No matter what, she's your mom and she HAS to love you an incredible amount.

I'm happy you have your sister too :)

Answer 3

girl hang in there i know exactly what you are going through. my mom and i used to be at each others necks so much then i moved out the first chance i got. btw how old are you?? if you need any guidance or just need someone to talk to feel free to send me an e-mail or an im anytime i will get back to you. remember i have been there and i got through it and i'm a much stronger person now than i was back then

Answer 4

I believe that in order to communicate with your mother that you two need to write a letter to each other instead of talk that way you both can express how you fill on the situations and can try to over come what is bothering both of you

Answer 5

my mom and i don't get along either. we fight at least once a day and more then once are fights have got physical. unlike you however i have no sister to adopt me. i have a father but he married another woman and her and i don't get along either so i am screwed. I really can't recommend anything but i can say good luck and if you find something that helps your mom and you get along would you pass it on to me. I'm sick of fighting!!!

Answer 6

If I had a brother/sister/friend that was willing to adopt me when I was living with my parents I would've done it. My dad's a (insert word here)!

Answer 7

if she doesnt listen when you talk to her.... cry to her cry so bad and helpless like she feels so bad that she asks you whats wrong. then say "Mom, I love you i really do.... i just wanna know why we dont get along" then cry alittle harder and let her answer and then talk to her

Answer 8

Tell your dad how bad you feel. He is the one to help you

Answer 9

check into self-esteem studies to deal with your mom and anyone else:
http://www.kidshealth.org/kid/feeling/emotion/self_esteem.html

http://www.kidshealth.org/parent/emotions/feelings/self_esteem.html

show this one to your parents

Answer 10

If it is that bad move out