my gf just broke my heart and i need to get over her quick, i really love this girl, so dont just give me some bullshit answer, just tell me how to get over her as quckly as possible
2006-08-13 15:54:10 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude read carefully:
Things will suck for no less than 3 days. Its like trying to get sober fast, there is no cure other than time...BUT.....
Start working out IMMEDIATELY.
The absloute only thing that will get you over this girl is Self Inspiration (SI).
SI Key #1 - Run three miles a day religiously. Run hard and push yourself (no weak jogging around for 15 minutes crap) the intensity of your run is key to this therapy. Q. Why run? A. Runners High. This 25 - 35 minutes of semi-meditative mental stature will motivate and inspire you in every facet of life. In 1-2 weeks all you will want to do is run. You will sleep better, feel better, look better, live life better. guaranteed like Men's Warehouse.
SI Key #2 - DO NOT go to the gym and lag around in the weight room (too much distraction + depressing atmosphere + no ability to focus = no inspiration for getting over the girl). Push ups + sit-ups and running is all you need. Absolutely no need for a 24 hour fitness.
SI Key #3: Do not listen to any music from which you can generate a memory towards the ex GF. In fact no music from the last 24 month period. Go out and get all new music.
SI Key #4: Absolutely No reality TV whatsoever. Absolutely no MYSPACE.COM whatsoever!
SI Key #5: Go out and buy new clothes, you need to step up your game.
Bonus Tip: If you at all start to think of the ex GF, immediately tell yourself every reason you are better off without her (imagine every flaw possible) then immediately cut off you thinking pattern, say: "Reeaaadddy BREAK", clap your hands one time and move on.
2006-08-13 16:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by Johnny Ballgame 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant get over her quickly because since yo love her it'll take time. The thing I would do is think of any bad times you 2 shared 2gether and think of the mean or cruel things she's done to you so that she'll seem like a bad person 2 you and you'll hate her for that. Thats one way I got over this bastard that broke my heart.
2006-08-13 23:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by *+*sArAh*+* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you really loved her, it's not going to happen quick. Only thing I know to get over people is to get everything that reminds you of her out of your sight. Don't throw stuff away, just hide it in a box in your closet until you can look at it again. (Or you get back together) Don't go to the places that you frequented together for a while. I guess the best way to keep her out of your mind, is to think of something else all the time. And when thoughts of her do creep in, yell at yourself and remind yourself that it's over. Bad things happen to good people, just don't do the rebound thing. Hang out with friends. Take up a hobby or sport or something that makes you think of other things. Good luck.
2006-08-13 23:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by Elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing that I could suggest would be to distract yourself with reading, movies, that kind of stuff. With time, you'll get over her, but there is no magic solution. Keeping yourself busy meanwhile will prevent you from becoming overly depressed. You may also want to try being around good friends and kind people, because being alone could bring back the sadness.
It changes slightly on your preferences and how social you are, but in short, fill your time with activities and things that take your mind off of your heartbreak. I hope you get over her as best as possible.
2006-08-13 23:08:12 · answer #4 · answered by Bondy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
You need to get into a routine in your life. As in, some kind of a timetable for everyday, same for each day for another 2-3 months. Thats for week days.
And always go out on weekends. Make sure you are not alone. Get your friends to go out.
Always works. Especially the routine part.
2006-08-13 22:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u might this is some bull **** answer but here goes.. there is no time limit for a broken heart to heal and u will come to realize even if u start dating random girls to just forget about her, u will only be thinking of her and nobody else. so, u just have to give it time and keep urself busy because the ultimate terrible feeling is being in love with the person next to, but u know that they dont love u back. hope all goes well! dunno if ud like to talk further email me or IM me on msn messenger.. cotton_candy8448@hotmail.com
2006-08-13 23:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by cotton_candy8448 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may sound like bullsh*t but the best thing to get over someone fast is to get moving and get out and have some fun. Go out with your friends or just go out alone. Don't be shy in asking the ladies to dance. The worst they can do is say no. No is just a word hon. Words cant hurt you if you don't let them.
2006-08-13 22:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by pinkpuppet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get over her is time and go out there and spend time with your friends cause they will always pull you through do anything that you can do to take your mind off of the breakup i know that it is hard but there is no real quick way to get over a person that you really loved.
2006-08-13 22:58:43 · answer #8 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u love some1, it's tough, there is no quick way SORRY. Time. Find some1 better. I doubt a girl broke ur heart, never happens. I think ur too young for that.
2006-08-13 22:59:58 · answer #9 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find someone else onlin in town or something like that but remeber some people don't believe in love at first sight
2006-08-13 23:02:42 · answer #10 · answered by K.L.C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋