I am an African-Ameriacn female who has never really been physically attracted to other African-American guys( only on very very few occasians.) My first crush was in 1st grade and he was half Mexican and Caucasian. To be honest, I am physically attracted to every ethnicity: White, Hispanic, Asian, and Arabian, Native American....everything--if he's cute I don't care about his background. However when it comes to Black guys, I often don't find them physically attractive....is there something wrong with me?
2006-08-13 15:54:00 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie there is absolutely nothing wrong with you..We all have our preferences in our life...But I will say dont matter whether they are cute or not either..I have found guys to be so sweet and cute but when i really got to know them Oh boy they were not what i expected..Looks aint important..Look at their heart..Listen to how they talk and listen with your heart..I have come to realize that in my life...When you go for the heart of a person then you will find the one you are to be with ..God bless you
2006-08-13 16:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by glowworm 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. Absolutely not. I'm white. And everyone says that because I'm tall I'm going to end up with some black basketball player. I disagree. In fact, I've never liked or been attracted to a black guy. And I know to some that sounds racist, but they just don't do it for me. Haha..You know what I'm saying? Attraction is a VERY personal thing.
2006-08-13 16:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No as I know white guys attracted to only black women and I have an African friend that will not daye a woman unless she is plus sized! Everyone just has preferences I guess.
2006-08-13 16:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by toughguy2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really but why must you see a color when you find someone attractive? Stop "seeing" a color. Look deeper. I know everyone says that but really. Don't see black or white, see beauty! I find African-American women attractive and have never found one who dated white dudes but I find all races attractive not just this one or that one. Hope that helped and didn't sound to judgmental.
2006-08-13 16:01:17 · answer #4 · answered by sixfoot8bkr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong with you. We live in a time where there are many races living amongst us and we have the ability to choose who we want to be with and we are free to choose and admit to who and what we like. I am white and have found many African-American guys very handsome and attractive. It's your choice feel free to choose just don't rush into anything.
2006-08-13 16:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r looking in all the wrong places because there are guys of all races that r cute. there are cute african american, caucasian, mexican, etc., boyz that look at least half-way decent. u should be attracted to all type of guys- as long as they are cute!
2006-08-13 16:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah...as long as you don't have anything against possibly being attracted to a black guy, I'd say you just have a preference. Maybe a guy of another 'flavor' just intrigues you more and seems more interesting.
2006-08-15 14:45:02 · answer #7 · answered by Indigo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's anything wrong with you. You're attracted to some guys and not others. Who cares?
That's just the way things go.
2006-08-13 16:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by John C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. You just have different tastes in men, as does the rest of the world. Do not worry, you are completely normal.
2006-08-13 15:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by Not done with love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Im the same way.
But no theres nothing wrong with you and if anyone tells u there is something is wrong with u they're wrong and tell them to mind they're own business and don't let them make u feel any other way.
2006-08-13 16:26:37 · answer #10 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋