He says he loves me. He never send me email or call me or anything though..Is that normal? He is also very quiet and I'm not even sure if I should stay with him anymore. Help
2006-08-13 15:50:29 · 29 answers · asked by Staticx 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if that bothers you find another
2006-08-13 15:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by Ric 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has he always been a very quiet person?
If so that may be the reason why he never calls..
If you want, like, him to email you or call you just to tell you he loves you or that he's thinking of you...a lot of guys don't really do that...Apparently they think its silly...*shrug* that's what I've heard from friends and brothers
If it's really important to you for him to do that and you want to salvage this relationship you can tell him how much it would mean to you for him to call or email you every now and then...if he cares about you he'll do it..
If not then move on...
But since you say you're not sure if you should stay with him anymore than I'd suggest moving on now
2006-08-13 22:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is odd that he doesn't call you or anything, but how about time...how much time does he spend with you? Does he take you places, take you shopping, get you stuff, go watch the local games with you - whatever they might be...take you camping or on trips ...anything? If not, when he comes over what do you all do, if its just to get with you, you might want to think about why he is really there, it could be all he wants from you is that, and he might have some other girls lined up on the side who he sees the rest of the time. worst case is he has a wife somewhere that you don't know about.
Anyway, from what you say this doesn't sound like a relationship at all. My advice is to dump him and find someone who will be there for you and do things with you.
2006-08-13 22:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is the quiet ones which are the dangerous ones...guys like these,is best u have a serious talk to him face to face,ask him where do u stand in him n how far does he think this relationship goes? if he answers uncomfortablely or avoids it or changes topic or answers in complete..then i think he's just some guy who wants to have some fun n nothing serious..ive been thru this and i didn't stay long cuz i cudnt trust this silent game anymore
2006-08-13 23:07:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
words, email, calls, they can all be easily faked by a guy. one that only rely on words? - that's the worst faker i seen. any typical guy will at least send flowers, a card, a text message, or email for about a month before dumping your *** after accomplish his mission. you are better off with someone else - at least you get free dinners and movies.
2006-08-13 22:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by erk m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy seems to be a very boring person. I would personaly leave him. If he loved you trust me you would know. I have had experieces with that kind of stuff. But really you should leave him and find a more exiting man to be with. Have fun not be boring thats what life is all about...
2006-08-13 22:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by Candy Girl's Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie this will depend on yall's ages and how long yall have known each other..If you really seek to find out then be honest with him..Tell him what you want to know..But thru my experience when a guy says he loves you then generally they will show you alot...Same way with girls..dont get upset ok just think about what i said...Talk to him and tell him your concerns...I do hope and pray all will work out for you..God bless
2006-08-13 22:58:03 · answer #7 · answered by glowworm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u would think that he did b/c hes with you but if he doesnt even take tim to call you and barely talks then maybe he doesnt like you anymore...or he may be shy maybe u should try callin him more and starting convos with him if that doesnt work then accept the fact that he may just be tryin to make you get the hint
2006-08-13 22:56:12 · answer #8 · answered by kym b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your no longer happy with him, try and fix things. If that doesnt work then move onto someone else after you take some time off to focus on yourself for a while.
2006-08-13 22:54:31 · answer #9 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start thinking about what you want out of the relationship. If you need phone calls and conversation, (most of us do) and your not getting that, tell him what you need. If after that still nothing just move on.
2006-08-13 22:57:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't mention your ages. Usually if a boy likes a girl he'll at least call her. Now a days there's email so he should at least email you, if he uses a computer that often.
2006-08-13 22:53:47 · answer #11 · answered by shizzlechit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋