im in my 6th month
2006-08-13 15:48:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's been nine months for me so far. It'll probably be a lot longer, too.
2006-08-13 15:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by Lanani 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I started trying right after breaking up, on the same day I called a potential to arrange a date. But it doesn't mean that I didn't love the girl I broke up with. But it was gone you should not chain yourself to a thought. let it go. staying alone wont help getting over it. Go ahead never look back because life is going. Looking back wont help changing the situation you'll go through more pain even by looking back and thinking about it. Like Roger Waters says: Memory's a stranger. Get over it man. I broke up just a week ago.
2006-08-13 16:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by ali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you feel. Don't worry what someone else did. Are you ready for another relationship? That's what you should be asking yourself. But i know that wasn't the question that you were asking so here's the answer: I didn't start dating someone again until 2 years after I had broken up. But that was becasue I couldn't find anyone worth while. That and I wasn't ready for another relationship.
2006-08-13 16:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by Kathleen M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in 6 month after a breakup then I would say that you should be able to handle a new relationship..
You just have to give your self time to heal..and get the other person oout of your mind...
You just don't want to take anyone on the rebound cuz it will only end up hurting you agian..
2006-08-13 15:53:31 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you shouldnt worry about a new relationship. If you are compleatly over this ex girlfriend, and you have healed and you are in the place that you are comforable with your life again, and you feel that you are happy as you are, then you can open yourself up to sharing that happiness with someone else. If you are still miserable and unhappy then I wouldnt suggest getting involved with anyone. You should make friends and keep company and surround yourself with people you want to be like. Finding happieness in your life on your own is key, that way when you find someone special to share that happiness with you wont need her to make you happy , bacuase you already will be. ;)
2006-08-13 16:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give your emotions a rest, especially if the previous relationship ended on a sour note. Dating or entering a new relationship too soon could be disasterous and is very painful for the rebound person when they figure out that's honestly all they were to you.
2006-08-13 15:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well....let's see....I have been seperated since last October and divorced since February and I still haven't jumped into a realtionship. I have dated a lot of people, but I guess I am more picky now. 6 months is nothing, and patience will bring u someone even better :)
2006-08-13 16:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does matter...
you may need to make sure that emotionally you're OK enough to move on so that you won't end up carrying any old baggage with you into the new relationship...
it's been 8 months for me and it hasn't been easy being alone but I know that it appears to be easier for guys to move on, they seem so emotionless( at least my ex does).
maybe you're the acception to the rule?
...If I were you if there was someone you wanted to see maybe you should it has been 6 months for you so it's not like you're just panty hopping... go ahead enjoy life...for the both of us!
2006-08-13 16:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months. thought I'd neve trust a woman again once my ex filed divorce papers. Turned out to be the best present she ever gave me.
Many people are not ready for years.
2006-08-13 15:53:45 · answer #9 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question you really need to see is how much that girl really meant to you??? Sometimes a breakup takes a while and sometimes it dont..Just matters how much yall meant to each other...When you are ready to see someone ele then your heart will lead you...Never rush anything for when you do it will never last..God help you on your journey..Just look within your heart ok
2006-08-13 15:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by glowworm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I knew guy for almost year and we were as a couple for 3 or a little longer months....but life is life and we broke up.....and till know i'm single...don't wanna rush into any new r/s...as the wounds still hurt...
All need time and place....
2006-08-13 15:54:03 · answer #11 · answered by MysteriousCat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋