Ok, I'm trying to figure out an aswer to something that has been perplexing me for a while... I broke up about three weeks ago... We broke up due the the fact that she had been cheating on me with her ex, of which cheated on her four times... Physically abused her... Could care less about her, and just wanted her for sex... Well... She decided to cheat on me with this guy... Our relationship was going good till then... And she went behind my back and did this... I'm confused as to why someone would be possessed to cheat on someone that they loved, loved them, and treated them like a woman with a guy that Abused them, and well, is a man whore (but can never satisify a woman according to all of whom have been with him)....
Does anyone have any insight on this one? Because I dumped her, but I'm still curious as to what could have possed her to do this...
2006-08-13 15:46:07 · 20 answers · asked by Rob D 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's in love with him. And yet even through he abused her and treated her like she ****. She loves it and she had a good guy from what I have read but her mind was focus on that dude that treated her like that. Move on iwas the best thing that you did for yourself. Trust you don't need no girl like that. She had a prince but kept crawling back to that dog.
2006-08-13 15:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Want some real world advice? Move on realizing that she just did you a huge favor by showing the kind of person she really is before you reached a point of marriage.
Next, it won't do you any good trying to figure out why people do the things they do. You'll just drive yourself crazy. Spend your life and time wisely and focus on the things which make you happy. All I can tell you is this, women are strange when it comes to relationships with me. They tell you they want the romantic, wonderful loving man, but deep down inside they seek the excitment of "bad boys". I thinks its burned in their DNA, just as it is in men to want to have sex all the time. Let it go and find a woman who is worthy of your love.
2006-08-13 22:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think we sometimes fall back into these bad relationships bcause that's our comfort zone. As odd as that may sound a woman who grew up around tension seeks tension because that's what she's used to. It takes counseling and or therapy to identify the feelings that are bad and the ones that are good.
2006-08-13 22:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, she is dependent upon this person. Some women need turmoil in their lives to feel whole. Some women are clingy and attach themselves to abusive men. It sounds like you should find someone who will love you for you and won't cheat.
2006-08-13 22:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really bad judgement and low self-esteem. She could be a masochist. Its a dirty bird that fouls its own nest. To go back with someone like that says that this girl is a very troubled, messed up person. Let her go. You can do better.
2006-08-13 22:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have always wondered about women who continually go back to the jerks. I think that some women like to think that they'll be the one to change him or that maybe it will be different. Or maybe she needs, for some strange reason, to have the co-dependent thing.
2006-08-13 22:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by DIRT MCGIRT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well see this man abused her right and controled her and used her for sex....well men like that know how to control a women they tell them what they want to hear....even thought they might be broke up he still has a good grip on her even thought they are not together...and he will still have this grip until she stands up for herself and tells him no more...its a very hard thing to explain
2006-08-13 22:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by April 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls are stupid. not that girls aren't intelligence, but they always let emotions get better of them. obviously she still believes that her ex is her "soulmate," no matter what he did to her. she probably only sees the happy side, or believe she could change him. typical idiocy. i have a couple of friend and they are like this. very sad because they could've been better. dump her and move on.
2006-08-13 22:51:02 · answer #8 · answered by erk m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about her the if she comes back to you then you make ur own decisions on how you want to treat her and deal with her ex that is abusing her to many times.
2006-08-13 22:55:48 · answer #9 · answered by Jaclyn S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are weaker and more caring. R u sure? Every guy online comes off as mr.nice, but 99% are not.
2006-08-13 22:50:24 · answer #10 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋