So my previous professor and I slept together a week ago, and I thought it was a one night thing, because he's ten years older and we both were clear about not wanting a relationship - but now, apparently, he wants me to take a bus to see him sometime in the next few weeks. Now, he lives 2 hours away. So now I'm all kinds of confused. Either he really liked the sex and he wants more, or..well, I don't know. Any ideas?
2006-08-13 15:30:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P/S Yeah, I got an A. Ha ha ha ha ha ha.
2006-08-13 16:00:36 · update #1
After you slept together the first time, did he talk about starting a relationship or seeing one another again even after you'd already been clear about not wanting a relationship?
Be careful, I've never met a guy who didn't want to "get the candy for free." Chances are, he just wants a friends with benefit deal and is willing to make you travel to sleep with him. If you're interested in sleeping with him again, see if he'll drive to you or at least that he's willing to pay for your ticket.
2006-08-13 15:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were both clear about not wanting a relationship, you should ask him what's going on. You have the right to know if he's changed his mind or if it's just a sex thing.
2006-08-13 22:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by kids and cats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you that good in sex? that he wants u all the way despite that hes 2 hours away from you..If he just want sex..he can get sex within the vicinity you know maybe he changed his mind about not wanting a relationship maybe he likes you in a different way..
2006-08-13 22:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by princess ysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes old enough to have you ask him what he wants and is looking for . What do you want is the most important question. Be sure you use protection and make him pay for the bus ticket.
2006-08-13 22:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just want a repeat performance. Just go with it and have fun stop analyzing it so much. If he is trying to get serious then talk to him and tell him you are not interest in him like that and leave it alone.
2006-08-13 22:36:33 · answer #5 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he just wants you to be his sex partner..
u slept with ur professor? ha ha bet u got an A in that class..
2006-08-13 22:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by Juggernaut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. He really liked the sex and wants more.
This probably would be applicable to any male, not just your old professor.
Your choice whether you go or not.
2006-08-13 22:50:49 · answer #7 · answered by kako 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a younger girl. Of course he wants more sex.
2006-08-13 22:34:39 · answer #8 · answered by James D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't go c him even if my life depended on it.
cause it could just be a set up.
so think about plz.
i don't know u but i wouldn't want u to get hurt.
email me if u got any other problems at
cchsbabe_2006@yahoo.com
2006-08-13 22:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by cchsbabe_2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both need help. The teacher should not be sleeping with a student and that is all there is.
2006-08-13 22:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by DH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋