He said he would break up with his girlfriend to be with me and he is flying out to see me in a week. i just dont know what to do. If he breaks up with his girl to be with me how do i know that he wont do the same to me in the future?
2006-08-13 15:28:57 · 21 answers · asked by LKBaller 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't.
If he's willing to break up with his girlfriend because he met you and you spent what, two weeks around each other? IMHO he's not the sort to hang your hat on.
I'd recommend you tell him not to bother coming out to see you.
2006-08-13 15:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, long distance relationship. Do you have any guarantee that he's gonna break up with her? There are just too many uncertainties, you should really think this one through before letting it progress to a point where you might get hurt. If you just met him, you don't know if he's on the level, or gonna have 2 girls at the same time. And since there is no way for you to know it will be easy for him to see both of you. Be careful, and good luck!!
2006-08-13 15:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I were you I would want to know if he really broke up with the gf before he comes out to see you. If he can cheat on her when you were in Texas, just remember he can cheat on her when you are not in Texas just as easily.
He sounds like a typical player to me, and once a player always a player....he will cheat on you later if another pretty skirt catches his eye.
Why would you even think about getting with someone who has a girlfriend anyway? How do you think she feels when he makes excuses not to be with her or when he tells her he has to go on business to some other town (where you are although she doesn't know it) Or when he decides to tell her he is breaking up and she realizes all this time he has been off somewhere else he was with someone else.....???
Do you want to go through this too? Because you will .......
2006-08-13 15:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly, once a cheater always a cheater. There are plenty of other guys out there. Plus distance is really tough. How can you be completely sure that he is really going to break up with his girlfriend in TX. He can't have his cake and eat it too? DONT DO IT!! You deserve better!
2006-08-13 15:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh how will you know that he has really broken up with the girlfriend, you don't live in Texas. Have fun enjoy your time together but unless you can unconditionally trust him to be in the same city with his girlfriend and old girlfriend? don't do it. How much can you really know about him you met him on vacation.
2006-08-13 15:35:35 · answer #5 · answered by bobbalou27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl wake up he is a player he is not breaking up with his girlfriend for you and you're not in Texas he is going to have a good time going back and forth!!!
2006-08-13 15:34:24 · answer #6 · answered by classy chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't and trust me he will do it again! Don't be stupid. Let him go. Move on. My mother met my father because she babysat for his kids. My dad divorced his wife for her. When I was 14 I had to tell my mom that dad was having an affair, it did come back to bite her in the ***, it always does, so do yourself a huge favour get over him. Go shopping. Buy Lot's of clothes for yourself you are better off.
2006-08-13 15:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to break up with her and then dont see him. Ruin his life...
Or
Tell him to break up with his g/f and then when he is in Texas he will be banging her all the time and still seeing her but you wont know about it...
Dummy.
2006-08-13 15:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by smokewizzle44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, relationships should begin with trust. This relationship started out wrong and now there is no trust. Nine times out of ten, if they do it once, they will do it again. And, long distance takes commitment and if you don't trust him, it won't work.
2006-08-13 15:35:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont throw your up in to this one if you dont want to get into trouble maybe if he see another lady he might break up with you too this guy is collecting and not selecting he might do the same to you too co'z he dont know what he really want.
2006-08-13 15:36:05 · answer #10 · answered by eumiar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋