I have no attraction towards guy whatsoever. Please advise what to do.
2006-08-13 15:26:58 · 31 answers · asked by joni j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tie the stap-on to the bed post when she is gone. Im not joking, why wouldnt it work!!!
2006-08-13 15:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by blsully 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
You need to respect her wishes! If she is uncomfortable with this, then you need to let it go. If you stay together long enough, you might get another opportunity in a few years. For now, find something else to enjoy with her. But pushing her into a sex act she doesn't want would be wrong. It's not a gender bias. I would tell her the same thing.
2006-08-13 15:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You people are so rude, immature and close minded...
But anyway...You can't force your gf to do it...
Is it the strap on that she has a problem with? Or just the whole idea of sticking something up your bum in general? How would she feel about putting her gloved finger in?
If she's still not into it they seel some dildos with like suction cups on the end and you could do it yourself...They also have toys but make sure that you get one that is made for it and has some kinda of umm...thicker backing to it...Uhh...This may sound but...a stopper? lol...That way it can't slip to far inside of you...
2006-08-13 15:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Explain to her that prostrate massage is more stimulating, and that it has nothing to do with sex with men. Tell her its her you want giving you the most pleasurable experience that a man can have, and that its a bonding experience for you both. If she is still not into it, than back off. Its something she has a problem with, not you.
2006-08-13 15:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by Camille 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Find a girl who is willing. I've done it for my boyfriend, and he can't get enough of it now. We got it on video too. It's awesome. It was a fantasy I wanted to act out. He was the one that was unwilling to do it at first. He really enjoys it. Your gf should be more willing to try new things to please her man.
2006-08-13 15:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Dude if it's a turn off for her compromise and figure out something that wont turn her off but will work... maybe you could get an anal sex toy or something that she doesn't have to deal with.
2006-08-13 15:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If she refuses to do it, it's time for you to find someone who will. Let her know you intend on it unless she is willing to get down with you.
2006-08-13 15:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by noir 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about gay or straight, strap-ons are fun and you two should enjoy!
2006-08-13 15:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
This is something you are going to have to do without if your girlfriend is unwilling to do it.
2006-08-13 15:33:03 · answer #9 · answered by iam1shoppindiva 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds like you want the whole wammy up there!!!! i agree, its really gay!
GO to the doctor if your having problems with the prostate thing!!
they make medicine for that too
2006-08-13 15:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by leslieh338 1 · 1⤊ 4⤋