i dated this guy for 4 months and a half off and on we broke up becuz of him cheatin than he broke up with me becuz i was grounded than i took him back several times now we're 2-gether and the girl he cheated on me with is going 2 call him he said he's going 2 talk 2 her and i cant listen to the conversation this is the same girl he's cheated on me with
2006-08-13 15:19:53 · 17 answers · asked by lilb491 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, you should beat him to it.
Dump him! Why would you want to be a guy that gets around so much anyway?
Sounds a bit "busy" to me.
If he broke up just because you were grounded, it sounds like he just wants a relationship that is "convenient for him.
A true relationship is give and take. Sounds like this guy is all about the taking. Relationships are NOT always a happy wonderful time, don't you want someone who will be there through the rough times too. Wouldn't you stick with a guy you loved through his hard times? You should want the same thing for yourself.
Have some pride. You're worth more than that.
2006-08-13 15:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by Gigit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a lucky lady to know all this up front. You're not made for each other. Call it quits and set off on new adventures. This one just came to an end and you were able to make that determination now, instead of 6 months from now.
2006-08-13 22:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of that. Believe me...I KNOW! I had a boyfriend when I was 15 who did that. He would call the girl on 3-way and I would be quite and listen to the conversation...and it literally made me sick. Now...seven years later...I am not fully recovered from our relationship...needless to say a lot more happened...but a lot of it was him cheating and lying. You don't deserve to put yourself through that!
2006-08-13 22:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by morggiepie20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BREAK UP WITH HIM. hes loser. he doesnt deserve you. if a guy cheats hes a dog and not worth your love or anything...and if he broke up with you cause you was grounded then god damn he dont care much about you...and if he still talks to that girl and you cant listen then **** HIM you know. you deserve better.
Kick him out girl.
2006-08-13 22:25:19 · answer #4 · answered by krissy_pod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay the same problem sorta happened with one of my friends. I'm pretty sure that if he CAN cheat on you more than once, then he's going to do it again. I think you should leave him and move on. If you don't, things are going to get worse, believe me.
2006-08-13 22:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by mocdip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this guy friends with her b4 he cheated on u with her, or not... cuz if not, then i'd b a bit worried about all this... if he really likes/loves you, let him talk to her and then sit n talk 2 him about it n tell him how u feel... and if he's really defensive n treats u like ****, u can nearly garauntee that he's either doing, or plannin 2 do sumfin b-hind ur back again...
2006-08-13 22:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by cassycookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!! He is a dog!!! The fact that he is even going to TALK to the same girl he cheated on you with is enough. Kick his *** to the curb and get a real man.
2006-08-13 22:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have only been together 4 months and have already broke up "several times", this doesn't mean he is going to break up with you for her. This means its time for you to wake up and leave him alone. Break up with him.
2006-08-13 22:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by a_gr8_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is not finished with her. In my opinion, you should break up with him. If he is not going to respect you enough to be honest and faithful to you, then you are better off without him. He believes that if he juggles you and her, that he can have both. Dont let him. YOU are worth more than that!!
2006-08-13 22:27:36 · answer #9 · answered by Camille 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl hes playing you like a fool stand your ground and tell him ur not having it anymore....tell him its a 2 way street and if he aint going to be crusin with you then he better get the **** out because you aint carrying dead weight....
2006-08-13 22:23:58 · answer #10 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋